I need to learn karate b/c I am gonna dropkick my FSIL

She has been nothing but negative about the wedding lately! She hated the BM dress color I picked and accused me of hiding it from her because 'I knew she wouldnt like the color '(totally unfounded complaint). Then she tried to back out of the bridal party and told me that weddings are a big waste of money and its not important to her to be a part of our wedding. Now tonight i was over there talking to her mom and I said 'sorry i keep talking about the wedding, but i promise this will stop after September' and the ***** chimes in 'Hopefully you will stop way before Sept'

I might punch her in her fat face before this is all over. ARGGGGGG!!!!

Ok rant over. Thank you for listening.

I say Punch her, punch her, I hold her down for you!

She sounds like a jealous biotch!!

WOW...she sounds like a great person

Sorry you have to go through this! You should def put her in her place!

What's up her a ss? Honestly, with an attitude and comments like that I'd tell her to step out of the BP

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Posted by ahall04

Ooh, that must really get your blood boiling. Go ahead and use some colorful visualization in your mind to give her a good foot jab to the stomach! Did you have any issues with her before all the wedding stuff started?

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No issues with her ever before this..and we have been together for 5 years in Sept. My FH parents went through a nasty divorce last year and now the whole family is bitter about marriage...however she is the only one showing it outright. And I CANNOT be mean back to her because i really dont want this wedding to ruin my relationship with FH's sister. I know my FMIL also hates the whole wedding idea and she is kinda negative too, but in a much more tasteful way. I want to kill them both though!!!!

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Posted by gNi1125

What's up her a ss? Honestly, with an attitude and comments like that I'd tell her to step out of the BP

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I wanted to, but instead I took the route ofer azz and kissing htelling her she could wear whatever color she wanted as long as she didnt mind looking like an outcast...She finally just decided to wear the same dress and stop crying about it like a baby.

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

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Posted by gNi1125

What's up her a ss? Honestly, with an attitude and comments like that I'd tell her to step out of the BP

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I wanted to, but instead I took the route ofer azz and kissing htelling her she could wear whatever color she wanted as long as she didnt mind looking like an outcast...She finally just decided to wear the same dress and stop crying about it like a baby.

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Just keep saying to yourself...'5 more months 5 more months' I hope she grows up!

Unfortunately, I learned this one lesson. Nobody cares as much about your wedding as you do. ANY amount of wedding talk is annoying to someone who may feel unfulfilled in their own relationships. There could be a multitude of reasons:

- they arent in the spotlight
- they have no confidence
- they have had many failed relationships
(or just one)
- they havent had sex in three years
- they never saw a grown man naked (big whoop)

I have to tell you that she sounds extremely envious of you and regardless of her reason for trying to be as miserable as possible, I would just feel sorry for her. I mean if she can't even be happy about her own brother's wedding then there is something wrong with her. Don't let it get to you. When she makes stupid comments laugh at her and the more she sees that she is not getting to you, she will give it up. it may take a little time but she'll give up.

Thank you everyone! I really needed to hear these encouraging words. I am always so glad when I can come on here and rant and I have so many people that understand what I am feeling! I love all you ladies!

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Posted by Goldi1021

Unfortunately, I learned this one lesson. Nobody cares as much about your wedding as you do. ANY amount of wedding talk is annoying to someone who may feel unfulfilled in their own relationships. There could be a multitude of reasons:

- they arent in the spotlight
- they have no confidence -YES!
- they have had many failed relationships
(or just one) - double YES!
- they havent had sex in three years- Triple YES!!
- they never saw a grown man naked (big whoop)

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hahaahahahahaa! Have you met her??? lol!

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

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Posted by ahall04

Ooh, that must really get your blood boiling. Go ahead and use some colorful visualization in your mind to give her a good foot jab to the stomach! Did you have any issues with her before all the wedding stuff started?

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No issues with her ever before this..and we have been together for 5 years in Sept. My FH parents went through a nasty divorce last year and now the whole family is bitter about marriage...however she is the only one showing it outright. And I CANNOT be mean back to her because i really dont want this wedding to ruin my relationship with FH's sister. I know my FMIL also hates the whole wedding idea and she is kinda negative too, but in a much more tasteful way. I want to kill them both though!!!!

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It's kind of crappy of her to take her issues with her parents divorce out on you. Can FH talk to her and get her to lighten up and be positive? Sounds like she's just crying out for attention. I'm so sorry she's being a biotch to you!

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Posted by Goldi1021

Unfortunately, I learned this one lesson. Nobody cares as much about your wedding as you do. ANY amount of wedding talk is annoying to someone who may feel unfulfilled in their own relationships. There could be a multitude of reasons:

- they arent in the spotlight
- they have no confidence
- they have had many failed relationships
(or just one)
- they havent had sex in three years
- they never saw a grown man naked (big whoop)

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Bravo... Leslie is always the voice of reason!

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Posted by Goldi1021

Unfortunately, I learned this one lesson. Nobody cares as much about your wedding as you do. ANY amount of wedding talk is annoying to someone who may feel unfulfilled in their own relationships. There could be a multitude of reasons:

- they arent in the spotlight
- they have no confidence
- they have had many failed relationships
(or just one)
- they havent had sex in three years
- they never saw a grown man naked (big whoop)

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You hit it right on the head! I agree!

why don't you just say something to your FSIL?? No offense here, but i don't think it's just about a marriage breaking up and her being bitter. People can be sad and bitter about things and NOT take them out on others. Are you sure she likes you because i would never take anything out on someone, especially if that person was my FSIL who happened to be planning a wedding?


**I never understood how with all these posts we get about people fighting, how no one wanted to confront the situation head on. It seems that a lot of people like to just ignore it, but then it never gets any better. I just don't get it.