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I need to vent...

MrsMagoo Posted:

I need to vent...

Okay - seriously...as most of you have read..me and FH have decided to change the wedding plans. Nothing is official yet - but we decided on getting married down at Atlantis in the Bahamas. He was all fine with this - until a few days ago when he all of a sudden 'wasn't so sure'. So I told him that he needed to make a decision because if we went back to the one up here - then we have a RH payment due and NOTHING is booked! So he sleeps on it and we came to the conclusion the next day that we will do the destination and then have a 'wedding celebration' at our house (we are buying a house the beginning of next year) when we get back. I thought this was a great idea...he was all up for it and everything. So we also decided that we would have a small ceremony that morning since we need to be married in his church (his family is Roman Catholic) for it to be recognized. Once again - I just thought everything was falling into place so nicely. My parents are all for it....my sister loves the whole idea. So I was just talking to FH on the phone and he says to me..'I think the whole party thing afterwards might be too much and it really seems like we are having two weddgs...I dunno now....'

I want to kill him!! I told him if he was standing in front of me that I would be smacking him!!

I just need some hugs....how come things finally seem to fall into place and them WHAM...he does this to me again. The problem is that I don't want to seem like a bridezilla...but I just want to turn around and say - 'This is what we are doing...deal with it'

Sorry its so long and thanks for listening to be vent!
nposa07 Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear that you are having a rough time with the planning...but at least in the end you will marry the man you love!! You'll laugh at this one day but until then
ntunison Posted:

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lilqtpie2181 Posted:

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These are for u dollface
Love4Eva Posted:

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MEN! THEY CAN BE WORSE THAN GIRLS SOMETIMES! but it will all work out ... good luck!
siobhanB Posted:

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I'm not sure if its just the way you wrote it or not, but it sounds like he always decides he's not sure after he's away from you a while... is he talking to some people (possibly IL's) about these ideas he loves and they are talking him out of it??

Personally, I think the church wedding, destination wedding, and then in-house celebration is an awesome idea..
Mandyin2007 Posted:

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i'm sorry. My FH and I went back and forth with wedding plans for a long time (we've been engaged over two years) It was so nerve racking! I hope everything works out.
melbalalala Posted:

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Dont rush things, you may feel like there is crazy pressure but you are a year out. when is the next payment to the RH due?

I say take a few deep breaths and talk it over... and over.. and over... there will ALWAYS be vendors out there available.
chrissyandvin Posted:

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TAKE A DEEP BREATH! Everything will work out fine!
MrsMagoo Posted:

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Posted by melbalalala



Dont rush things, you may feel like there is crazy pressure but you are a year out. when is the next payment to the RH due?

I say take a few deep breaths and talk it over... and over.. and over... there will ALWAYS be vendors out there available.



Next payment due June 15th...hence the rush...
haleyzcomet Posted:

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ds319 Posted:

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everything will work out, hang in there!
cuteauburnininny Posted:

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werock0709 Posted:

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Just relax, and take a deep breath. This shall pass too. Everything will fall into place before your very eyes!
Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted:

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melbalalala Posted:

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Posted by DMartocello


Posted by melbalalala



Dont rush things, you may feel like there is crazy pressure but you are a year out. when is the next payment to the RH due?

I say take a few deep breaths and talk it over... and over.. and over... there will ALWAYS be vendors out there available.



Next payment due June 15th...hence the rush...



ugh.. well, thats a week? Enough time to write lists, get your thoughts out, etc.

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