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I need to vent

bag19 Posted:

I need to vent

Hey all,

So I don't really post on here, but I really need to vent to someone about my day. Sorry in advance, but this may be a long one.

So this past weekend my FH and I were in Macy's and I found something to give my BM's for their gifts but the Roosevelt Field one only had 2 in stock. So the really nice saleslady gave me a list of stores that have this thing in stock. So we go to B-way and they have 2. So that's 4. I still need 2 more. I call Macy's Herald Square and they only have 1. FH works in the city and takes the LIRR so I asked if he could stop at Macy's on his way to Penn to pick it up at By Appointment and that its already been paid for and all he had to do was pick it up. Well, he REFUSED to go there for only ONE of these things. He said if it was the 2 we needed he would, but not for one. Well...how that makes sense I have NO IDEA!!!!!!! Why pass on one that we KNOW is there and risk not getting all 6??? Well one of my co-workers daughters happened to be at Macy's and picked it up for me. I tell FH and hes now MAD at me because it makes him look like an a ssho le. UMM the reason you look like an a ssho le is because you ARE BEING ONE!!!!!!! I'm just PO'd bc I have made all the appts. with our vendors myself, I have made all the phone calls and have been handling everything ALL BY MYSELF! and the ONE thing I ask him to do he says 'you know, its not easy to get to Macys' UMMM excuse meeee but unless the city has changed since I was there last week, Macy's is across the street from Penn which is where he has to get his train. How is that hard to get to??????

Next up, my parents are in Mexico (they've been there since last Tuesday and aren't getting back til Saturday) so anyways, my brother (who SUC*KS!!!!!) is 23 years old and still needs his hand held with EVERYTHING he does. Well, I get a phone call from my Aunt who lives in ALBANY that my bro called her all freaking out because he has to get a tooth pulled and has no money to pay for it. Well what do you think my aunt can do for you in Albany??? So guess who had to go to the dentist on her lunch break to pick up x-rays? and guess who has to take her brother to the oral surgeon at 9am tomorrow morning on my DAY OFF? and guess who might have to put down 20% of the bill so he can get them pulled??? Oh that's right...ME!!!!!!!! I swear, the next time my parents go away I'm going away too so I don't have to deal with this isht!!!!!!!!!

Ok sorry so long, vent is over.
meg922 Posted:

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It sounds like you're really having a rough day. Hang in there!

Can you order the last BM gift from Macy's online, to avoid having to run around to find it?

Hope your day gets a bit easier!
bag19 Posted:

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Thank you! Its been a really rough day and I've gotten to a point where I just don't want to plan anything anymore. I just want to fast forward to the HM!!

As far as the gifts go, I can't find them anywhere on the internet. I think its discontinued. Can't even find them on ebay or overstock. I would have had it shipped but it was $12.95 to ship it to my house....but it was free to have it picked up. I'm still on a hunt for the 6th. Unfortunately no Macy's on LI have it in stock so I'll probably end up having the last one shipped but I want to save where I can at least.

I'm feeling a lil better! My MOH is taking me out for some much needed drinks after work today!
mokie74m Posted:

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Sorry your having a rough day. I know your frustrations as I too am the ONLY one planning everything for our wedding and get resistance everytime I ask FH to help me make a decision on the wedding.

littlepixie12 Posted:

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Oh Im so sorry... sometimes men act to stupid for no reason.. hang in there sweetie!

bag19 Posted:

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Thanks girls! Just getting it out of my system made me feel better!! Thanks for the words of encouragement!
donnasmom09 Posted:

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Awww, Elizabeth, I know how it is going from store to store to collect enough of the same item, and I'm married, so I know all about guys and their stubborn ways sometimes. Hon, I hope your day gets better, and I just prayed that you will find another one of what you want!!!!! Mary MOB
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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wow im sorry that you have to go through this! your brother needs a good kick in the a$$! sounds just like something my brother would do. if i were u i'd say see ya later, wait to mom and dad get home..not my problem!

bag19 Posted:

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Aww thanks Mary!!
bag19 Posted:

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Posted by Summertimegal424

wow im sorry that you have to go through this! your brother needs a good kick in the a$$! sounds just like something my brother would do. if i were u i'd say see ya later, wait to mom and dad get home..not my problem!




ITA that my brother needs a kick where the sun doesn't shine!!!!! There is sooo much more to his story than I posted so trust me I want to say SEE YAAAA and let him figure it out for himself but something is keeping me from actually doing it...i don't know maybe cuz at the end of the day he's still my brother? Either way I know he has to grow up and I wish my parents would stop baby-ing him so that maybe he would learn how to handle these things on his own.
donnasmom09 Posted:

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Posted by bag19

Aww thanks Mary!!



You're welcome sweetheart!!!! We girls need to stick together!!!!! Mary MOB

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