i need to vent--- I'm really SAD

That's not good Is this a sudden feeling or have you been feeling this way for a while? You def want to decide what you want to do before you get too involved with the wedding planning.

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Maybe you can bring it up to FH later on & let him know how you feel Hope everything works out

I'm guessing this isn't the first time you thought about canceling the wedding so you really need to think about what you want to do. The longer you wait, the more you are going to invest and if you really are unhappy it's something to consider.

However, I would definitely think about it a little more and not make any rash decisions while you are upset. Wait until you have calmed down so you can think with a clear head. I hope everything works out for you! You wanted to marry him for a reason so think about that!

I completely agree with the other girls' advice.. this is something huge, so please don't rush into a decision like this. How long have you felt this way? And how long have you and FH been together? You might want to consider couples' counseling because this might be a problem that can be fixed. Of course, I don't know your situation and perhaps it's something too big to ever be fixed, but it's something to at least consider.

Whatever you end up doing, you have our support and don't hesitate to ask for advice on specific things. If you want to talk, feel free to FM me.

Wishing you the best..

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I think maybe you need some time to think about why you're feeling the way you do.
Don't make any spontaneous decisions, just take the time to figure it out.

I think couple's counseling could help, if he's willing to take that route.

We're here to listen if you need to vent..

Sending you !

ITake a breather...guys have their off days too... Give it sometime then address in a non confrontational manner, how you feel.


But most of all, breathe and take your time to decide. :)

So sorry you are going through this.

Please don't pretend. I called off my engagement over 2 years ago and it was the best decision I ever made.

FM me if you want to talk more. I ignored my feelings for a while....and once we got engaged I was even more determined to make it work to avoid embarrassment. In the end, the longer I pretended, the more miserable I was.

So please, do what you think is best. Your friends and family will stand by you.

RELAX.... You're reacting at the moment bc youre uncomfortable and he's not helping the situation. You posted this a few hrs ago but maybe you can go get some air and make a few phone calls.

FH's can be VERY annoying and things can get hectic once wedding planning starts. Talk to a few people, pray, and sleep on it. If you're still feeling this way in a few days then maybe talk to some people you trust and figure out if its fear or what is going on thats making you feel so uncomfortable.

HUGS. Just get through the night. This too shall pass.

First off you need a big hug

It sounds like this may be a stressful situation just putting you over the top? Is this the first time you've considered canceling your wedding? If I were you I'd take a step back and breathe. Think about it, and calm yourself. When you're feeling okay, then take to your FH about how you both are feeling.

Hey girls----thx so much for all the support u girls are GRT!

Everything is fine--- there was a lot of things going on this week and I finally couldn't take it anymore...just lost it (in private of course LOL)

I had a bad week at work, have my period, had to travel almost two hours for the wedding and help, and finally really didn't know anybody except the bride and groom.

FH and I talked afterwords and I realized he really couldn't do anythings for me but I didn't want to hear it----I had taken enough! I guess I have to learn how to be more understanding but depending on the situation it is REALLY hard!

That's it girls------ thanks again for listening and your kind words

Glad everything worked out!! Sometimes you just have to take a step back and let things work themselves out without over thinking too much. Now if only I could listen to my own advice when I get mad at FH!

Not sure if you're in the 2012 FB group, but if you ever want to vent about anything without it being on a public board, that's the best place, IMO.