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I need to vent, so just bare with me....

prncssrachel Posted:

I need to vent, so just bare with me....

I'm about to go crazy lately. My parents were kind enough to allow JT and I to live with them until we get married so we can save money for the wedding and a house, but lately things are reverting back to when I was a child and I am just so frustrated. We pay rent and do plenty of things around the house...my father never lifts a finger for the garbage, my mother NEVER cleans ANYTHING, we vaccuum, we clean up after them, etc. We basically leave no trace of us being there because we don't want to have to hear it from them. But now it seems we've dug ourselves into a hole. They DEMAND that we clean things, the FLIP out if the garbage is not taken out IMMEDIATELY (it needs to be driven a mile to the community's trash bins, so it's not like we just take it to the curb). Prime example....my mother was cooking this morning, and like the slob that she is, there was sh!t all over the kitchen, all over the floor, etc., and she says to me, 'Look at all of this on the floor, it wouldn't kill you to vaccuum, you know!' And I was like W T F , YOU just made the mess, and her answer in screaming form was, 'Well YOU live here, too!' I'm sick of being Cinderella, but we absolutely cannot afford to move out right now. I don't know, I am really just posting this to vent. I hate being treated like I am 14 years old. I am a grown woman and it's killing me to be living with my parents again. I thought I was done having to do this We just can't afford to move
Rainmama Posted:

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Boop2704 Posted:

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Maybe you should sit down and have a 'heart to Heart' talk with your parents and tell them how you feel!!
prncssrachel Posted:

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Yeah, I tried the heart to heart thing and they said that I don't know what I'm talking about, they do not do that and if I really don't like it then I should move out. And we all know I would move out, but again, can't afford it. My parents maintain that they don't WANT us to move out, though. They're very strange and I think I just am going to do the best I can to not be here as much as possible. I have a great relationshiop with them, but I think this togetherness is really wearing thin.

palebride Posted:

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totally understand where you're coming from here....my last few months living with my parents were HELL!!!!!! I wasn't sure any of us were going to make it to the wedding alive.....

good luck!!!

Bride2B93 Posted:

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