I kept my bridal party small just so I can avoid unnecessary drama. I have 2 bm and 1 MOH. I know the stuff I get mad at its petty and I'm trying not to become a bridezilla but I'm stressed and I feel like they are adding to it with little dumb issues like one doesn't want to wear her hair up, one doesn't want to wear a certain shoe, one can't show up for my bachelorette party. Ugggh I really don't care about their issues I'm worried about my own issues like paying all my vendors and I'm 40 days away! Right now I really don't care about a bachelorette party! Then I have one bm that can't meet with me to pickup the flower girl dress because she has a 'headache' its always something if they didn't pay for their dresses already I would fire them and just keep my moh. Vent over thanks for listening girls I just feel a little overwhelmed.
adelz
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I'm sorry you're dealing w/ all the stress! Hang in there, it will all be over soon and you'll be a Mrs. before you know it!
Jmrosa1
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Sorry
I feel you on the drama...sounds like my BM's. Well select Bm! Your almost there!
dunnkat
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It is getting overwhelming the closer it gets for me too , I can understand how you feel every little thing is just enough to make me flip on someone! Im trying to just focus on what I need to do right now & if they cant get their act together oh well ! The wedding will still go on,, sorry they are being like that just take one day at a time it will all come together in the end.
spdy540
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I'm sorry. Trust me don't let the little things get to you it is not worth the stress
SimHawk8
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I understand how complicated and annoying somt bridesmaid can be. Hang it ... it's almost over.
MrsWoods
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I know how you feel. I have the same amount...one MOH and two BM's.
That is why i made the FH's teenage nieces into the BM's so i would not have drama from them cause they will just do what they are told but its my MOH that is not doing her duties.
So its always someone. Just try to stay calm and hopefully they will shape up.
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I'm sorry hun. I am finding the BMs to be the biggest problem too. Girls suck! Sometimes I wish I could have a bunch of guys and my BMs
LATOYA
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I'm sorry hun. I am finding the BMs to be the biggest problem too. Girls suck! Sometimes I wish I could have a bunch of guys and my BMs
I agree. Thanks girls I just needed to vent because they were driving me crazy. I'm over it now. My wedding will still go on and no one will ruin it.
