I need to vent why do in laws have to be so stressful?

tara5533 Posted: Mar 06, 2012 04:15 PM

I need to vent why do in laws have to be so stressful?

We did out tasting over the weekend and we went with my mom and dad and FHMIL and well during dinner my FHMIL was saying how we all(Bridesmaids and everyone) need to stay at the hotle the night before so when my hair and makeup lady comes she can do everyone I was not excepting to stay at the hotel the night before I was going to stay at my parents and I was going in the am to the hair salon to get my hair done and then asking my makeup lady to come to hotel. I have no idea what to do I am stressing my self out and I dont want to be a bitc* but I want to tell them all they need to get there hair and makeup done before hand Thanks for letting me vent

pinkbunny Posted: Mar 06, 2012 04:41 PM

Re: I need to vent why do in laws have to be so stressful?

I wouldn't stress yourself out! Politely tell her you have all the details of the morning timeline figured out with going to the salon and then meeting at your venue to get your makeup done.

You know what will work for you, and your bridal party, in terms of getting ready :)

Karrie D Posted: Mar 06, 2012 08:48 PM

Re: I need to vent why do in laws have to be so stressful?

Take a deep breathe and don't stress out!!! It's ur day and no one should tell you what you should or shouldn't do the night before, day of or any day for that matter. If u don't want to deal with your FMIL have ur FH politely tell his mother to back off.

Good Luck!

gicrespo Posted: Mar 06, 2012 09:15 PM

Re: I need to vent why do in laws have to be so stressful?

yes, in laws are drama personified. sometimes they mean well, sometimes they just want things their own way, which is not ur way. i would tel them how you feel and if they dont accept it, ignore them.