Interesting debate- great, valid points Jen. I completely agree with you!
seriously!! people need to think before they speak/write. If they did, the might realize how closed minded they sound (and quite possibly are). My wedding did not revolve around anyone else's life especially not such an establishment.
Posted by SummerBride10
Interesting debate- great, valid points Jen. I completely agree with you!
I'm glad someone finally stood up for it:)
Posted by meghan13
I'm glad someone finally stood up for it:)
Posted by flibbertigibbet
I jumped in.
Of all things to complain about... (and I mean there's been some girls on here complaining about church but I don't know if its a Cath. church or not) the church should seriously be the last part.
You are asking them to marry you. You could go anywhere. It's the actual most important part of your wedding. Maybe not the part you're most excited about (Um, right here LOL) but the only part that actually matters.
The part you say I, me give myself to you, person. Forever and ever.
I'm a proud Catholic. I like learning about other religions and what not but... I opted to be a Catholic. Went through RCIA just last year.
People just like to complain. I was raised Catholic and for personal reasons I didn't want to deal with the church so I didn't get married in one. I didn't sit there complaining that they have rules and whatnot. It's the friggin Roman Catholic Church, they're not going to change their rules and ideology just because I disagree with them and want to get married there. It's just like people who are Jewish, there are rules and certain dates/days you can't get married. I don't understand what the issue is. If it really matters so much change the date of your wedding. If it doesn't matter then get married at the RH where you can have your guests throw petals and rice and beans or whatever else at you...
Posted by GR2010
People just like to complain. I was raised Catholic and for personal reasons I didn't want to deal with the church so I didn't get married in one. I didn't sit there complaining that they have rules and whatnot. It's the friggin Roman Catholic Church, they're not going to change their rules and ideology just because I disagree with them and want to get married there. It's just like people who are Jewish, there are rules and certain dates/days you can't get married. I don't understand what the issue is. If it really matters so much change the date of your wedding. If it doesn't matter then get married at the RH where you can have your guests throw petals and rice and beans or whatever else at you...
Posted by JAAMS
Posted by GR2010
People just like to complain. I was raised Catholic and for personal reasons I didn't want to deal with the church so I didn't get married in one. I didn't sit there complaining that they have rules and whatnot. It's the friggin Roman Catholic Church, they're not going to change their rules and ideology just because I disagree with them and want to get married there. It's just like people who are Jewish, there are rules and certain dates/days you can't get married. I don't understand what the issue is. If it really matters so much change the date of your wedding. If it doesn't matter then get married at the RH where you can have your guests throw petals and rice and beans or whatever else at you...
I just burst out laughing when you said rice and beans.
I really respect that even though you didn't get married in a Church, you aren't running around saying what an awful place it is to get married and how they are evil. I think that's awesome.
