I really have no interest in the wedding anymore. I can't seek to get excited at all. Thinking of everything that has to be done I just want to quit the planning and just go with what we have. Oh man!
MrsC2010
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MerSaysEh
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noooo don't quit! It definitely is stressful and you are not alone! If you need to, take a breather, think about something else for a few days, get some pampering like a massage or something and then come back fresh-faced and ready to go! We are here to help! If its in your budget maybe think of using partial planning services? Many of the planners I met with offered reasonable partial planning and it can definitely take the burden off of you! Its ok and normal to feel discouraged; just remember this is YOUR special day and its ok to take time to yourself to make yourself feel good!! We're here for you!!!
brittndave
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you need something exciting to get back into it!
eta: what's your next step?
jackieee
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What else do you need to do??
Take a little break maybe, and then go back and finish your list.
latinaj
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calm down hun...what else do you need to do?
RGEC47
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Hmm..everything.
Mail out invites Finish BBB registry Tuxes (going next week, we only need 3 so store said we had time) Order favors Order candles Decorate candles Choose final menu Choose cake Need gifts
And things I know I need but can't think of.
brittndave
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bm/gm gifts? maybe research them online today and see what interests you! do you have any idea of what you want to get them?
how about going for a menu tasting so you'll be excited for the rh?
TGx3
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You are so close. Don't quit now. Like the PPs said, take a little step back and have a bit of a break. Once you get closer the excitement of the day will come back and you'll get a 2nd wind. Just think of how amazing your day is going to be!
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o no..u r so close..dont quit now..hang in there...i think we have all felt like this at one point...if it's really that bad..maybe consider hiring a planner?
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Posted by brittndave
bm/gm gifts? maybe research them online today and see what interests you! do you have any idea of what you want to get them?
how about going for a menu tasting so you'll be excited for the rh?
Well for the Best Man gift, FH is picking that out. I only have 2 BM. MOH: DOJ, and pendant necklace and her wedding shoes. I promised her even before we were engaged. BM (FSD): DOJ, Coach wristlet, not sure what else?
We did the tasting awhile back.
Believe it or not, talking about it has actually made me feel a little better. Thanks!
JAAMS
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Lu2700
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hang in there!!!
italgal
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A friend of mine felt the same way you do. She was so fed up with all the B/S from everyone, not to mention the stress of putting a wedding together. They put the kabosh on it all, went to Vegas, got hiched, had a blast for a week, came home, & started their new life together. Good for them! I'm glad they are happy!
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dont quit. you seem like you have a good list and you can get things accomplished. just make decisions and dont dwell over every little thing. my mom wouldnt let me do that and it helped a lot.
the tuxs we went 3 weeks before our wedding. what were you thinking for favors?
TessMike621
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one task at a time! You can wait a couple of more weeks for the tuxes too
Noelsgirl
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Ohh don't give up!!
tiffanykiss
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You just need to take a few days off of wedding planning to re energize. Weddings are stressful, but you need to keep time for yourself. Take a weekend off and relax and then start on Monday.
On Monday write your to do list and then identify one thing you could do a day to not feel so overwhelmed.
Hope this helps .
marinai7
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Take a little break and then you'll probably want to get back to it.
SummerBride10
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Dont give up! Take a few days off from wedding planning, then go back to it. It can get so stressful.
