i really can't rely on anyone can i?

i really can't rely on anyone can i?

Re: i really can't rely on anyone can i?

Wow, thats a pretty hard situation. I just got into a huge fight with my MOH today, but its not half as serious as your situation. You must be really hurt, Im sorry you have to deal with this. You hope that during this time, your wedding time, that people will for just once be selfless when it comes to you, make sure you are happy with everything concerning the wedding, and let this time be perfect. But that would only be in a perfect world. It's hard to believe that your cousin would do this to you considering how close you were. It seems like she had to make a choice between you and her father. I guess her decision to back her dad up is understandable, but couldnt she find a middle ground? If she couldnt, then dont you at least deserve a call....and explanation.....an apology? Again, this must be hurtful for you, but it seems like you have no choice but to let her go.....as harsh as it sounds, it seems like she has let you go. Just think about your new life that youre starting and all the wonderful things you have. Just try to focus on that. In my opinion, cutting ties with them if they dont go to your wedding would not be a bad idea. Just try to keep positive energy around you, life is short and people like that only waste time.

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I truly understand where you're coming from. My little cousin's mom pulled her out of my wedding, she is 13 and my only family, she was my JBM. I know what it's like to have family drama tearing everything apart so close to your wedding. The best advice I can give you, is as painful as it is, you will get through it. You have to wait and see how it pans out in time closer to the wedding. If they don't come to the wedding, or you feel they've hurt you beyond repair, take the time you need away from them to heal yourself. One true thing is that families are forever, so if you are ever ready to forgive and they are ready to apologize, you have a lifetime to do that. The most important thing is that the people who DO love you and care for you will be there on the most important day for you and your FH. You will be surrounded by the people who WANT to be there for you guys, and you should appreciate that and all the positive things that are happening for you right now. I know how hard it is though, because every day I think about my little JBM's dress sitting in my basement her garment bag I made her, and she may not even attend my wedding let alone be in it like she was supposed to. The pain will heal, and the day will be magical for you. FM me if you want to talk.

Re: i really can't rely on anyone can i?