I REALLY don't like Little Girls! =(

*Disclaimer!* This is not meant to offend ANYONE here - it's just a VENT about the day Paul and I had!

I took Paul to a play place in Smithtown called Let's Play, Let's Party. You can host a bday party there on the weekends, but during the week from 10am -2pm, the center holds an 'open play' for ages birth-5 yrs.

When we arrived, it took Paul a few minutes to 'warm' up. Once he did, he tried playing along with one little boy who was 3. This little boy wasn't really interested in playing with a 'baby' so, he kept walking away from Paul. I felt bad for Paul, but he just kept bouncing from one toy to the next.

Now there were 3 little girls there too - all ages 3 or 4, and jeez, were these little girls PURE BRATS! I could call them something else, but that's too harsh for a child EVERYTIME Paul tried to join in something they were playing, one of them would say, 'Stop that!' or 'No, that's miiiinnnnnneeeeee!' 'You can't have that!' 'Don't touch that!' 'That's not YOURS!' Etc, etc, etc....

I understand they are KIDS, but WHERE does the ATTITUDE come from? Why are little girls so whiney and *****y? Jeez....I mean, their Moms were right there saying, 'No, you must share.' and EVERY time Mom turned away, they'd say the same things. I felt so bad for my son! At least the OTHER little boy quietly walked away without yelling at Paul for touching a toy!

This experience just made me feel like I never want to have a little girl I can't deal with the attitude...is estrogen really that powerful at 3 and 4 years old??? Ew!

Claud I think that what you just had is a preview of the 'Terrible Two's'!! Around 18 months previously angelic children turn into little devils. It doesn't usually end until they reach about 4 to 4 1/2. It happens to both boys and girls and believe me, no matter how old your child gets you remember it always!

I am so sorry that they weren't nice to Paul. Hopefully next time there will be some children his own age that he can play with. Here are some hugs for you both.

That is EXACTLY why when I was pregnant I PRAYED for a boy. (every little girl I saw was a brat!!)
At the pool they let the kids have toys BIG MISTAKE this one girl would see Patrick going for a toy & she'd run over to in at grab it.

But then again there are girls who are sweet. (I don't want to think I'm a girl hater) I blame the parents usually. As you said the Moms kept turning away. they have to learn to watch their kids!!

Claud I think that says a lot about those little girls mother's parenting skills. Most girls that age love to play with babies

Poor Paul Hope he has a better experience next time.

I can tell you that my kid would have had to sit out if he or she treated Paul like that. I think that is crazy. Do they usually only have 3+ at open play?

I hope Paul did have some fun anyway.