One of my BMs and I were talking this morning and I said I was talking to my old boss about her and her BF and how I think their relationship will go sideways eventually because she's surrounded by people getting married and is getting the itch, but he's not and isn't making the effort to move down here like she wants (he lives upstate, she lives on LI). Now she's mad and I feel horrible. I apologized, but she doesn't want to talk about it and said she'll be over it tomorrow. I really should just learn to keep my mouth shut!
B22
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awwww you didnt mean to hurt her feelings.
i know i put my foot in my mouth at LEAST twice a week. Try not to be so hard on yourself.
kates
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I have the same 'put foot in mouth' syndrome. I do it all the time. And that is after I try so hard to THINK about what I am saying.
HeatherRose
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I can relate I seem to always do this.. it stinks, but if shes a good friend she'll realize that you aid it only because you love her, and know her so well.
lilangel
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Yeah I suffer from the same thing and I am consistently trying not to have my foot in my mouth so much but I know its hard.
Talk to her about it and let her know that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings but that you care for her and want her to be happy.
WilliesBride
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I think they are right.......and you know she might be upset because she knows it true and it is hard to face the facts sometimes.......ya never know....
AeroJenn
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wait, im confused. You were talking to your old boss about your BM's relationship? If thats the case, I dont blame her for being mad. First, you shouldnt really be talking about HER relationship to someone else. And secondly, why would you ever say something like that to her? I would be completely hurt if my friend went and gabbed about my relationship to someone I didnt even know and to top it off, it was negative gossip. I dont think the issue here is that you told your BM about what you said -- its more that you said it to begin with. Lets put it this way...how would you feel if one of your friends said 'oh yea, my friend Jen is getting married, but I really think they'll end up getting divorced because she thinks this but he thinks that' and then she came back and told you about it over the phone.
If i got the situation wrong tho, then forgive me....i may have read it wrong.
