I SERIOUSLY need help w/the whole church and program thing!

NEVER been IN a wedding before,
and i have no clue what to do

as for programs, which readings shold i pick???
do i pick 2 or 3?

am i supposed to do a unity candle thing?

what else do i have to do???

im freakingggg out right now cuz i have NO IDEA

First...breathe....it will be okay.

Honestly, I STRESSED for weeks about my programs, I had them made by Diana @ Pippy's Sweets, and got the info to her very last minute, making sure I had to set up right, the right songs with composer, etc. Only to realize after the wedding, most of the songs were not played! No biggie to me, cause it was after the fact!

Sorry I got off the topic....

As for the Unity candle, not required, it's up to you.

If you FM me your address I can mail you one ( I have about 15 left over), shoot we can meet up at Mama's for an ice 'neoghbor'!

Have you done pre-cana yet? Have you selected readings and such yet?

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Posted by JeanineHubert

NEVER been IN a wedding before,
and i have no clue what to do

as for programs, which readings shold i pick???
do i pick 2 or 3?

am i supposed to do a unity candle thing?

what else do i have to do???

im freakingggg out right now cuz i have NO IDEA

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okay, first off, breathe.

Secondly, what type of ceremony are you having?

I'll help.

catholic ceremony
no mass


we did pre cana
got a book, but the readings arent in there-there's just a one sentence summary of them?

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Posted by JeanineHubert

catholic ceremony
no mass


we did pre cana
got a book, but the readings arent in there-there's just a one sentence summary of them?

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Hmmmm, I still have the Together for Life (I think that's the name of it) book that has reading suggestions. We did a mass, but it tells you the order of things, either way.

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Posted by JeanineHubert

catholic ceremony
no mass


we did pre cana
got a book, but the readings arent in there-there's just a one sentence summary of them?

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Would you like my program template? I'd be happy to send it to you via e-mail. Just delete what you don't need.

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Posted by MsKitty1274

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Posted by JeanineHubert

catholic ceremony
no mass


we did pre cana
got a book, but the readings arent in there-there's just a one sentence summary of them?

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Hmmmm, I still have the Together for Life (I think that's the name of it) book that has reading suggestions. We did a mass, but it tells you the order of things, either way.

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does it?
i have to go take a look now at it

2 readings

Prayer of the Faithful is also read by someone of your choice.

Call your priest..he will help!! Do not stress out!! It will be fine!!

Also, you don't have to do the unity candle if you don't want to. It's up to you!

As for the readings, I can scan them from my pre-cana book and e-mail them to you if you wish?

omg i think i got it!
i followed my friends program n looked inside the precana book-

im tryin to pick the shortest readings lol

i guess the way u do that is look at the # of pages??

thanks u 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tme for bed lol

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Posted by JeanineHubert

thanks u 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tme for bed lol

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HTH! I'll be here in the morning if you need anything or want to ask a question!

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Posted by MsKitty1274

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Posted by JeanineHubert

catholic ceremony
no mass


we did pre cana
got a book, but the readings arent in there-there's just a one sentence summary of them?

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Hmmmm, I still have the Together for Life (I think that's the name of it) book that has reading suggestions. We did a mass, but it tells you the order of things, either way.

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You're on the right track. There is a page in that back of that book that helps you plan the whole thing. Don't stress, it's going to be okay!

You have FM!

ok we did the readers as all of our moms (we have div/remarried parents)

we did a unity candle