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I swear, FH gets PMS! (VENT)

jannshari Posted:

I swear, FH gets PMS! (VENT)

Every once in a while, FH gets in a really bad, nasty mood. It's like pre-MANstrual syndrome or something. He makes really stupid comments about things and then when I call him on it, he jumps down my throat. Had a bad day? Let's take it out on Jann. Granted, I'm sure I do the same to him once in a while, but holy f*ck man! He is just plain old NASTY.

He just called to tell me that his car was towed and he has to go to the impound lot to get it (how he's getting there is beyond me). He said that he was parked in a perfectly legal spot and that he took a picture of it, 'but I'll probably never bother to do anything about it anyway.' He always lets things slide like that (like the guy who side-swiped him - he didn't feel like waiting around anymore for the cops to get there so he was supposed to get a police report from the precinct so that he could get the other guy's insurance to pay it...we had a huge fight about it because I lectured him about making sure to do it and to do it the proper way, and he never bothered to get the police report in time, so it's going to cost us a buttload to get his brand new car fixed up). So I told him that he better do something about it because it's going to cost a ton of money to get the car out and he yells at me that it's only $135 and why the hell did I need to make him feel even more like sh*t and make it worse. HE said that he wasn't going to follow through with it and I'M the b*tch for calling him on it! So not fair.

Anyone else have an FH that gets PMS and takes it out on you, too? I also have been cooking dinner for him for the last two hours and he's going to come home, go into his office, and not bother to even spend a minute of his time with me before bed...and probably won't eat.

MrsTC Posted:

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my DH gets moody and I have learned to just ignore him than add fuel to the fire.. sorry you are feeling this way
mrswask Posted:

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Jann -
I'm sorry you're going through this!! My FI gets PMS also - lately it seems like a lot!
Hang in there!
StayandJohn Posted:

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Posted by jannshari

Every once in a while, FH gets in a really bad, nasty mood. It's like pre-MANstrual syndrome or something. He makes really stupid comments about things and then when I call him on it, he jumps down my throat. Had a bad day? Let's take it out on Jann. Granted, I'm sure I do the same to him once in a while, but holy f*ck man! He is just plain old NASTY.


Anyone else have an FH that gets PMS and takes it out on you, too? I also have been cooking dinner for him for the last two hours and he's going to come home, go into his office, and not bother to even spend a minute of his time with me before bed...and probably won't eat.





Yes Jann your not alone. When DH gets into his mood I completley ignore him, go about my routine, get into bed and go to sleep and in the morning I ask 'And how are we feeling today sunshine did that bug crawl out of your ass last night?' And yes I get the whole 'Stop lecturing me' hey if your hubby wants to throw money away so freely tell him to throw it in your direction and go to a spa day

Keep your spirits up~
jannshari Posted:

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I feel like beating him with a stick when he gets home. Not to punish him, but to make myself feel better.
jannshari Posted:

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If he would just stop doing stupid things, I wouldn't have anything to point out!

Kelly9904 Posted:

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Honestly I think they have monthly cycles as well!
They may deny it but its true!
swags1016 Posted:

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Oh yeah! DH's gets it too- though not as often as me
Irishbride Posted:

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My Fh gets it to.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted:

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Yep, my FH too
dandj Posted:

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I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!! Whenever DH is like that, I say to him are you PMSing or what? Just makes him madder, but its true.

LizD Posted:

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Believe me, you are not alone. Mine too get ManPMS. At this point I just ignore him when he gets like that.


Hugs for you

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