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I think i might be sick...MAJOR Vent!!

Jamnike Posted:

I think i might be sick...MAJOR Vent!!

My church has LOST my FHs Dedication Cert....so we can not register for Pre Cana.....or GET MARRIED!! his churched closed down 15 years ago and there is no copy of that paper!!! im sick to my stomach...i dont know what to do!

lyss0908 Posted:

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I'm sorry! Unfortunately I don't have any advice for you. There has to be something you can do, no????
missK Posted:

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they cant just close the church and throw the records away.. What are dedication papers??

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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let me get this straight -- you gave YOUR church his originals and they lost them?

omg -- did you make a copy? Sounds like a dumb question but maybe they only accept originals but you could use the copy to prove it existed.

Is it a catholic church? Can you take it up with the diocese?

I wouldn't be beyond begging -- hugs to you
Jamnike Posted:

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FH is Christian, his church was a revival center. his parents didnt believe that he understood baptism since he was an infant so he is dedicated instead. The church closed, it does not have a diocese or anything. any paperwork was given to the family. The church has the original....didnt think we needed another copy and were told wed get it back.....i cant believe it

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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Posted by Jamnike

FH is Christian, his church was a revival center. his parents didnt believe that he understood baptism since he was an infant so he is dedicated instead. The church closed, it does not have a diocese or anything. any paperwork was given to the family. The church has the original....didnt think we needed another copy and were told wed get it back.....i cant believe it



They do that in the pentecostal faith too -- it's not a baptism but a presentation to the church. They bless the child and that's pretty much it.

jeffamanda080808 Posted:

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I hate to be a downer...but incase all the other options are unavailable...how do you feel about getting wed by a non-denomiational officiant?
I know it's a dream of most to be married in a chruch, but if you can't do you have a back up?
I sincerely hope you can find a solution to this issue........
Jamnike Posted:

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Posted by jeffamanda080808

I hate to be a downer...but incase all the other options are unavailable...how do you feel about getting wed by a non-denomiational officiant?
I know it's a dream of most to be married in a chruch, but if you can't do you have a back up?
I sincerely hope you can find a solution to this issue........



my mom would freak...shes paying, we are getting married in a church... FH said WORST case...hell get baptised.. :)
ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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Posted by Jamnike


Posted by jeffamanda080808

I hate to be a downer...but incase all the other options are unavailable...how do you feel about getting wed by a non-denomiational officiant?
I know it's a dream of most to be married in a chruch, but if you can't do you have a back up?
I sincerely hope you can find a solution to this issue........



my mom would freak...shes paying, we are getting married in a church... FH said WORST case...hell get baptised.. :)



i am going through that process it takes almost a year to get baptised
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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i hope thing work out.
Soon2BSumma Posted:

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I don't know if it's the same thing as what you wanted, but we just went through the process of having the ceremony & marriage recognized by the Catholic church (We wanted a Priest present for the ceremony, but May 17th is a bad day... there's confession sat. afternoons and graduations) Not sure if this is something you'd be interested in...

snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Jamnike


Posted by jeffamanda080808

I hate to be a downer...but incase all the other options are unavailable...how do you feel about getting wed by a non-denomiational officiant?
I know it's a dream of most to be married in a chruch, but if you can't do you have a back up?
I sincerely hope you can find a solution to this issue........



my mom would freak...shes paying, we are getting married in a church... FH said WORST case...hell get baptised.. :)



is it that you have to be married in a catholic church? because there are also non-denominational churches that will marry you
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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wow im so sorry..i hope everything works out

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