I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

nov2004bride Posted: Jun 14, 2004 08:33 PM

I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

My FI has no clue what time and energy is going into this wedding. He is not involved and sometimes gets me so angry!!! He thinks it's no big deal that our supposed organist has not called me back after 10 phone calls over the past couple of months. He said that he has to call us back

He just doesn't get it

diamondgrlie Posted: Jun 14, 2004 08:35 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

All I can say is... MEN!

Seriously though, you should talk to him and tell him how much effort you are putting into the planning and to be a little more sensitive. JMHO

MRSJLK Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:14 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

They are such a pain!!!! Tell him he gets no nookie until he starts contributing

Summer05 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:15 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

men!

september2004 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:16 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

my FH just told me he can't wait til it's all over...

Julestrd Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:16 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

I guess I am lucky FH understands now after all my drama with my MOH. He is attempting to help out a little more now also

nov2004bride Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:18 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

Posted by Soontobekunz

They are such a pain!!!! Tell him he gets no nookie until he starts contributing

Jen, didn't Chris tell you we are waiting for marriage for sex

amy0405 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 10:23 PM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

Mine told me I bring the stress onto myself b.c Im making the centerpieces, menus, placecards, etc.

cocoa Posted: Jun 17, 2004 09:27 AM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

that is so funny b/c my fh feels the same way. i told him that on this stress test where they give events points as to how stressful they are, getting married, moving and starting a new job are like three of the highest. he says well, getting married and moving are worth 2 points and this job is worth 50 points...i'm like, nooooo, i'm trying to tell you that all three are horrendously stressful and it is normal right now for us to be stressed!!!

MRSJLK Posted: Jun 17, 2004 09:29 AM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

Posted by nov2004bride

Posted by Soontobekunz

They are such a pain!!!! Tell him he gets no nookie until he starts contributing

Jen, didn't Chris tell you we are waiting for marriage for sex

Oh Ya that's right - silly me

kazee525 Posted: Jun 17, 2004 09:35 AM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

my FI seems to think the secret wedding fairy comes and takes care of everything...he came over last weekend and we addressed about 30 envelopes (out of like 125!) and i heard him telling someone we are sending the invites out this week....i was like, um, HOW do you think the rest of the envelopes are getting addressed? men have no clue how much goes on behind the scenes!!!

charlotte227 Posted: Jun 17, 2004 10:17 AM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

same her but mine smiles i want to slap him so his hid spends around and around!

charlotte227 Posted: Jun 17, 2004 10:18 AM

Re: I told my FI I was so stressed out about the wedding and he said why should you have stress!!!!!!

Posted by kazee525

my FI seems to think the secret wedding fairy comes and takes care of everything...he came over last weekend and we addressed about 30 envelopes (out of like 125!) and i heard him telling someone we are sending the invites out this week....i was like, um, HOW do you think the rest of the envelopes are getting addressed? men have no clue how much goes on behind the scenes!!!

where is the wedding fairy, where, where