I truly want my FSIL to be involved , I just dont know how.. or if she even would want to be.. how can I involve her ? shes not in my wedding .. allthough I may ask her daughter to be a flower girl.. any thoughts.. ideas???
KitWisdom
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Maybe as a reader at the ceremony?
adre212
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Im having my ceremony at the place..
kimnsteve
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I am having reader even though my ceremony is at the place
I am having my FSIL in my bridal party so she's involved but i dont kow if she will be a huge part ya know since she's older
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I am having reader even though my ceremony is at the place
I am having my FSIL in my bridal party so she's involved but i dont kow if she will be a huge part ya know since she's older
Yeah, I’m having my ceremony at the RH too and am still planning on having at least two readings.
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I was going through this as well. I felt like i didn't want to burden her with the responsibilities because she's a busy woman but in my heart i wanted her to be a part of it. I asked my FSIL if i could have both her children in my wedding as FG & RB and just recently asked her to be my BM. but if anything you could feel it out by sending her an email with some wedding ideas and get her opinion. see how she responds to that. if she seems excited and has tons of ideas right off the bat ...then you know that maybe she's been wanting to get involved but didn't want to impose. if she doesn't seem so excited and gushing with ideas and or opinions then u know maybe she's just not that into it. once you know this it will help u decide wether or not to pursue her participation in your wedding details.
adre212
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ok... I guess I'll know better when I find someone to Marry us- thankyou
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Posted by KitWisdom
Maybe as a reader at the ceremony?
I like that idea...good one
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Posted by kimnsteve
I am having reader even though my ceremony is at the place
I am having my FSIL in my bridal party so she's involved but i dont kow if she will be a huge part ya know since she's older
Yeah, I’m having my ceremony at the RH too and am still planning on having at least two readings.
My sister got married outdoors and at the RH and still had 2 readers I dont think it matters