I want to elope!

Autumn08 Posted: Jul 07, 2007 12:40 PM

I want to elope!

I just want to call off the whole wedding and ask FH if he will elope.

I'm so sick of how much everything is costing.

I've been fighting with my parents and now they want me out of the house.

I'm just done with it all!

dream426 Posted: Jul 07, 2007 12:43 PM

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I'm sorry I hope everything gets better. It is horrible how much things cost and it is very stressful.

jgl Posted: Jul 07, 2007 12:45 PM

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i am so sorry. It is really hard with parents. My parents used to own a wedding store so my mom 'knows it all' and everything i say she tells me no it wasnt like that when she was getting married... that was 30 yrs ago.. omg.

I try to just not talk about it all that much and that seems to keep her quiet.. i really hope that things get better for you!

jjk1007 Posted: Jul 07, 2007 12:47 PM

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Posted by Autumn08

I just want to call off the whole wedding and ask FH if he will elope.

I'm so sick of how much everything is costing.

I've been fighting with my parents and now they want me out of the house.

I'm just done with it all!

OMG I know exactly what you mean!! FH and I have actually talked about eloping a few times just because the wedding is so frekin expensive but were already so far into it that we just cant.
Im sure that we wont regret having our big wedding in the end but right now im so frustrated with it all, I wish our wedding was tomorrow! (or I wish someone else would pay for it!) You'll get through it though, keep your head up!

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Jul 07, 2007 12:56 PM

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Posted by Autumn08

I just want to call off the whole wedding and ask FH if he will elope.

I'm so sick of how much everything is costing.

I've been fighting with my parents and now they want me out of the house.

I'm just done with it all!

aww i hope everything gets better!!!!

Butterfly123 Posted: Jul 07, 2007 01:10 PM

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I know what you mean. When I first found these forums, I think my first post was titles, 'Im calling it off' Cause of money and my parents. It will get better dont worry.

Junebride62108 Posted: Jul 07, 2007 01:30 PM

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Hang in there..it will get better! You do what u can with what you have, and in the end it will all be perfect dont worry.

Jasonsgirl Posted: Jul 07, 2007 01:31 PM

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I'm sorry. I hope things get better for you

Jesses Girl Posted: Jul 07, 2007 01:46 PM

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im sorry

fighting about it is not a good thing...i hope you can make up with them...i hate when i used to fight with my parents and my dad would tell me to get out...my mom hated it too...

just hang in there..

and i know what u mean...but u will be happy with a big beautiful wedding in the end...keep ur chin up.

Miblove Posted: Jul 07, 2007 03:11 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that:(

I feel that way sometimes - but it will all come together wonderfully - and somehow money just appears and everything gets paid - it will be OK:)

kellybean Posted: Jul 07, 2007 03:13 PM

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I hope everything works out ok . I know I went into this not realizing just how stressful it can become...I hope after your family cools down that its ok

kBr Posted: Jul 08, 2007 11:02 AM

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ugh i know how you feel! sometimes i wish i didnt book and already start paying off the reception because all this work on top of everything else going on drives me crazy sometimes!! but i just keep reminding myself how beautiful its going to be and how it will all be worth it. hang in there!! so sorry to hear about youre fight though, i hope things get better.

kBr Posted: Jul 08, 2007 11:04 AM

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Posted by jjk1007

OMG I know exactly what you mean!! FH and I have actually talked about eloping a few times just because the wedding is so frekin expensive but were already so far into it that we just cant.
Im sure that we wont regret having our big wedding in the end but right now im so frustrated with it all, I wish our wedding was tomorrow! (or I wish someone else would pay for it!) You'll get through it though, keep your head up!

im so glad im not the only one that feels this way! i too have talked to FH about eloping because i just want it all over with already.... but we are so far into it also that it would be impossible. im hanging in there though, i have to... i know in the end i will be glad i did.

angl2001 Posted: Jul 08, 2007 11:06 AM

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i hope u feel better! I know its hard but if its what you want then you will find a way to pay for it all. Try cutting corners. It worked for me....i have stayed under 20,000 so far with not too much to do