I want to pull my hair out!!! (long)

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Oct 13, 2005 12:51 PM

I want to pull my hair out!!! (long)

My BM's are not cooperating AT all. It's as if no one cares about my wedding/bachelorette party...the sad part is they are all family. Not one person besides me is planning my bachelorette party. My MOH (my sister) is 20 years old and doesn't go out clubbing or anything so she has no idea where to even begin. None of the other girls are offering any help. In addition to this my own cousin (which you all may have heard already) said she can't come to my bachelorette party because she has a Halloween party (which is in a nightclub in Manhattan)!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is why I didn't have any friends in my wedding so I can rely on my family well little did I know...i should have been more careful

Most of my stress has been caused by the BM's and all I've been doing lately is cry...this is supposed to be one of the happiest times in my life. It really hurts when your own family doesn't think it's important

Sorry, I just needed to vent.

Happybride2005 Posted: Oct 13, 2005 12:55 PM

Re: I want to pull my hair out!!! (long)

we're here for u

csorisi Posted: Oct 13, 2005 12:59 PM

Re: I want to pull my hair out!!! (long)

if you need help planning the bachelorette party we can help. I had the same problem my sister is my MOh & lives in Baltimore--I had to ask some of my friends to help me just so we had places to go. We ended up going to lucky chengs & coyote ugly in the city--we didn't get a limo just took the train in & I had a blast...it was a great night & coyote ugly was so much fun. I know it can be stressful but at this pt you have to take the good with the bad & remember that you shouldn't get too upset...this is suppose to be a happy time...unfortunately not everyone around us sees it that way sometimes.

Preshy7 Posted: Oct 13, 2005 01:02 PM

Re: I want to pull my hair out!!! (long)

aww jax!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so sorry you feel that way!!!!! ugh that totally stinks!!!!

i hope you feel better. maybe your mom or someone can say something and get the ball rolling?

if it helps, the bffs will take you out!!!!! we will do some honking!

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Oct 13, 2005 01:10 PM

Re: I want to pull my hair out!!! (long)

Awwwww...thanks girls...you are ALL so sweet!!

Hey Mel!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Awwwwwww...your the best, thank you honey...I have been stressing like crazy but I guess like csorisi said, I have to take the good with the bad...I'm not going to stress anymore...it's so not worth it.

Lots of hugs for you girls...thank you SO much!!