i want to strangle him (long)

kabo0831 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 10:24 PM

i want to strangle him (long)

Well tonight my fh and I were going to do our e-party invites. Well while i was doing it he got so mad that i didnt put his name on the return addresses and also that he wanted to to the directions. So i gave in an i did the address labels over with his name on them. Then when we did the directions together. I swear MEN THINK THEY KNOW DIRECTIONSSS..... I really think they dont. I was yellin at him for like 20mins b/c he wanted to be right and then i was right after all. After he got mad and went in my room to go watch tv and left me to finish the label and direction by myself. I went upstairs to see what he was doing and i went in the room to found him laying in my bed cry. he had gotten so mad that he wasnt doing anything to help me but just make me mad and he got upset about that. and that he wanted to help. So i asked him can you please help me finsh these up so we can get the out by Thursday. he was like yes as long as you say your sorry to my you Bridezilla I was like what.. THen i got more mad at him. Finially he came down to help me finished the invites. I wanted to do a list so when ppl call to RSVP i can just check it off well. We got into another fight about ppl that are coming. He wants to invite the world and the hall only holds up to 90 ppl if we go over that then we are screwed.So he get mad and went him so need less to say i did the list by myself and I have a FH that went home early... well i just got a call from him and he was like gn im going to bed im not talking to you intil tomorrow and then he was like if you are lucky you will hear from me tomorrow. Why does it have to be so stressful? Is the a sign of testing our faith??? What??? I need to now.. I think i should just go to bed myself..

Sorry long vent and i need to get it out....

HotAir Posted: Jun 25, 2007 10:28 PM

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Awww...you had a rough night! I'm sure things will cool off and you will both be better tomorrow!

rsolano222 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 10:45 PM

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I agree with HotAir. I think you both just need time to cool off and you'll be fine once you've had the time to just let it be

tinadansr Posted: Jun 25, 2007 10:49 PM

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sounds tough but you'll get through it.....
Hope everything works out

Anthonysgirl Posted: Jun 25, 2007 11:06 PM

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Don't worry! I'm sure things will be better in the morning. Just relax and try to stay calm.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 11:15 PM

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I am sorry that happened to you...it sounds like you are both a bit overwhelmed with the e-party invitations and all...try to relax, take one thing at a time and tell him what was bothering you. Let him tell you also....communication is key in these situations...neither of you are mindreaders!

Ms SunnShinne Posted: Jun 26, 2007 02:13 AM

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Dont kill him girl...it just gets like that

Irishny8 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 07:40 AM

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sorry you had a bad night, maybe giving each other some time to cool off, things will look better today, you'll both be more calm. Good luck!

mishmosh328 Posted: Jun 26, 2007 07:57 AM

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So sorry

...at least he wants to help!! you can look at it like that!!

FalNBill Posted: Jun 26, 2007 10:23 AM

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I agree with the other girls... it was just a bad night... but dont dwell on the negative,.... look at the postitve side,,,, He wants to help! Next time talk to him about maybe splitting some of the responsiblities up with him, Im sure he will feel better & Im sure everything will be fine today!