I won't be posting too much any more

Original post by eogara

Jan 20, 2005 09:03 AM

I just found out the other day that FMIL comes in and reads my posts. Unfortunately, this is just no longer a comfortable place for me. I am still around reading but I probably won't be writing too often. Good luck with all of your weddings!!!!

Judy&Jesh Posted: Jan 20, 2005 11:20 AM

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Posted by marc_rai

Posted by QueensBride

Posted by jimmysgrl

change your screen name and do not use your picture.....

I agree!!!!!

Double agree!

Triple agree!!!

CubanBride Posted: Jan 20, 2005 11:28 AM

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Posted by Judy&Jesh

Posted by marc_rai

Posted by QueensBride

Posted by jimmysgrl

change your screen name and do not use your picture.....

I agree!!!!!

Double agree!

Triple agree!!!

Quadruple agree.

lillian771 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 12:10 PM

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Wow, thats really controlling of her, and completely unfair!

Maybe re-join under a different name, and don't include all your information?

Bebalina Posted: Jan 20, 2005 12:14 PM

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Posted by diamondgrlie

That is terrible! I totally understand how you feel. We will miss you but I am sure you can still ask any questions that arent in-law related.

My sentiments exactly

belle22274 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 12:26 PM

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eogara: My FMIL does the same thing which is why I don't post very often at all. I truly feel your pain!!! What they are doing is just plain wrong!!! FM if you need to vent to someone going through the exact same thing.

Summer05 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 12:34 PM

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That really sucks!

littlebookworm4 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 12:36 PM

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can you change your name??? That's horrible!!

GoingNutty Posted: Jan 20, 2005 03:05 PM

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Wow... try to keep in touch Eileen-- we will miss you!!

mcaula Posted: Jan 20, 2005 03:36 PM

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Awww that stinks well miss ya hey still FM people o.k. good luck with your wedding planning

May05Bride Posted: Jan 20, 2005 03:45 PM

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That sucks!!!!

Why don't you change your user name and just become anonymous?
That way you can post, but ensure that no one knows its you!

Moosey911 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 03:47 PM

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What a bucking fitch!!

Obviously these aren't completely anonymous boards and they are here for the public to see....however, your FMIL should be mature enough to realize that sometimes we all need a place to vent--without the interference of our family!!

That's the great thing about these boards---you can vent to complete strangers who don't judge you or voice their opinions on how THEY feel (Unless asked)....and for her to snoop around and do such an underhanded and sneaky thing...UGHHH!!! It's got me pi$$ed off!!!

I'm sorry you have to leave--and now probably 'sneak' around using a new screen name--feel free to FM those who you would like to know your new screen name---
Sending some hugs your way Eogara!!! We'll miss your name and pretty face!!!!

Dooodles Posted: Jan 20, 2005 03:47 PM

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How intrusive! I am so sorry you are going to have such a control freak as a FMIL who feels the need to read your posts instead of enjoying this wonderful community of women to help you as you plan your wedding.

JPC1125 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 04:40 PM

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Its sucks that you feel like you need to submit because shes lurking ..... stand up for what you want and just ignore her!

If she wants to read, let her....i dont see how you talking about your wedding planning will change anything...to me, thats not any ammo she can use.

butterfl2878 Posted: Jan 20, 2005 05:27 PM

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OMG...you poor girl. to be honest, i would be tempted to do that....but I NEVER would actually do it! that is terrible.

ckgmwedding Posted: Jan 20, 2005 05:34 PM

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I can't believe she would be so rude!!! I love your posts and hope you will go 'into hiding!' Just FM us and we'll know!!!

jsb1ot Posted: Jan 20, 2005 06:21 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that. You've been a great help here

junebride! Posted: Jan 20, 2005 06:54 PM

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Wonder why she does that? If she wants to be a part of it all, she should jointhe Mom's board!

Maybe you could 'stick around' by changing your screen name and include no info or fm evrybody!

Good luck! MMM...good luck with her as a mother in law

traceyd Posted: Jan 20, 2005 09:13 PM

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Posted by jpavig

That's a terrible thing to do to you. Now where are you gonna go when you have to Vent??? Maybe you can try setting up a new screen name and only telling the ones you always talked to. That way you can stick around and still be a part of this. Just no pictures.

I agree don't let her being a nosey body ruin it for you-change the name and dont post the date or pic-my mouth dropped when I read your post-what nerve!

natbella Posted: Jan 20, 2005 10:21 PM

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OMG- I feel so bad for you...what a horrible way to start off your marriage with her son...I guess she doesn't realize the affect it could have? I wish you luck