if FH doesnt answer his cell

Original post by ant n tilde

Nov 18, 2007 09:33 PM

do you repeatedly call like a psycho

i think i just called him over twenty times and i am getting so frustrated with him

he keeps it in his pocket

ANSWER THE PHONE

ok i have to go call again its been a minute. . .

ant n tilde Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:47 PM

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Posted by NC1011

I'm a psycho dialer too. And, the more I call and the more he doesnt pick, the more PSYCHO I get. Then by the time I finally get in touch with him I'm so pissed and then afterwards I feel stupid.............yet I still do it every time

oh yeah i totally just freaked on him so i am on to that 'feeling stupid' part now !!

NC1011 Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:49 PM

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BEWARE to those of you who check voicemails. I used to do this and I got into LOTS of trouble for being sneaky. FH was FURIOUS with me for being so dishonest and I tried to turn it around on him and be like 'Oh well if you dont have anything to hide than it should be no big deal' and then he told me he was gonna change his password and when I checked it was still the same so I know that he was testing me. Just be careful!!

ant n tilde Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:49 PM

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ok deep breathing. . .i have to calm myself down before he gets home i really dont want to fight about this even though i am so disappointed.

MAY24BRIDE Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:50 PM

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ugh, i hate it when he says we'll hang out but then doesn't answer his phone or bother to call and say he can't for whatever reason...men....sheesh!

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:54 PM

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as I am reading this post my FH is in my bed on his cell.. which he is contstantly on. I am a cell Psycho aswell... Hes pretty good with answering the phone luckily. I think he just knows how i will react.

bemyyoko Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:55 PM

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lol yea i do it.
for some reason if he doesn't answer i automatically think he lost control of his car and is in a ditch somewhere.
I'm a psycho.

ant n tilde Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:56 PM

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Posted by bemyyoko

lol yea i do it.
for some reason if he doesn't answer i automatically think he lost control of his car and is in a ditch somewhere.
I'm a psycho.

yes i thought something horrible happened too so i went btw totally freaking out AND being mad. . .minute to minute

Espo22 Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:56 PM

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its funny bc i just got a text a few mins ago and it was fh saying that he tried calling me and i wouldn't pick up, he was like i dont know if you're sleeping but call me when you get a chance, somehow i didnt hear my phone and problem is i do this ALOT!!!!!! bc of work i keep it on vibrate and i just leave it on like that so i always miss calls and he gets frustrated, i need to stop this...does your FH keep it on vibrate or maybe has a low ringer?

AS Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:56 PM

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When my FH doesnt pick up the phone, OMGGGGGGGGGGGGG that pisses me offff sooooooooooo much. I repeat dialing until he answers. Sometimes its important , God forbid something happened and I have to call 20 times and finally hell calls back. Its that damn iphone that he has when he is on the net with it the call wont go through and I have to text all the time

cbcf Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:56 PM

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haha i never get like this with fh...however i did with my past boyfriend but thats because he was an a$$ and a cheater and didnt trust him.

but when i call fh when he had his cell phone if i called and he didnt answer i would leave a message and wait for him to call me back unless like an hour went by and i knew he wasnt working then i would call again just to make sure.

but now that he is in japan and only has vongage (phone through the interent) he needs to be in his room to answer so i only really call him on the weekends because i know he is in his room. during the week fh calls me every morning right before he goes to bed and every night right before he is going to work. so i am used to not talking to him or being able to catch him on the phone when i need him. it ***** but i am going to have to deal when fh is in iraq and not getting calls for days

but i am sure once he is home iwill be like that

ant n tilde Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:58 PM

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Posted by Espo22

its funny bc i just got a text a few mins ago and it was fh saying that he tried calling me and i wouldn't pick up, he was like i dont know if you're sleeping but call me when you get a chance, somehow i didnt hear my phone and problem is i do this ALOT!!!!!! bc of work i keep it on vibrate and i just leave it on like that so i always miss calls and he gets frustrated, i need to stop this...does your FH keep it on vibrate or maybe has a low ringer?

usually on vibrate but in his POCKET unless its in his car like it is right now!

Annoulak Posted: Nov 18, 2007 09:59 PM

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i absolutely call him like a psycho

ant n tilde Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:01 PM

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this is great

Espo22 Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:02 PM

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Posted by ant n tilde

Posted by Espo22

its funny bc i just got a text a few mins ago and it was fh saying that he tried calling me and i wouldn't pick up, he was like i dont know if you're sleeping but call me when you get a chance, somehow i didnt hear my phone and problem is i do this ALOT!!!!!! bc of work i keep it on vibrate and i just leave it on like that so i always miss calls and he gets frustrated, i need to stop this...does your FH keep it on vibrate or maybe has a low ringer?

usually on vibrate but in his POCKET unless its in his car like it is right now!

yeah i do that too, if im driving ill blast music and not hear it...in october FH went to a bachelor party in ac and they took a party bus...well he got dropped off at his friends house in the city and i said ill pick him up from the city...i was at a friends house helping her move and he must've called when i was saying my goodbyes, i finally look at my phone when i got home and realized that for about 30-45 mins he was calling me non-stop...i felt bad bc we also had to drive his friend home and fh was so tired and wanted to get home already.

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:12 PM

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no i never call him, cause he never answers, so instead of getting that rejection feeling i always wait for him to call

lexi1890 Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:15 PM

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yup...i call and call...no i usually call twice and if no answer i leave a VM....i wait about 10 minutes and then if he doesn't call back then i get nervous. We live over an hour from one another so i get nervous that something happend. He usually has his cell so when he doesn't answer right away I go crazy and think the worse. Can you imagine when we have kids...yikes!!

ant n tilde Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:16 PM

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

no i never call him, cause he never answers, so instead of getting that rejection feeling i always wait for him to call

i need to learn how to do this!

bemyyoko Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:16 PM

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Posted by NC1011

BEWARE to those of you who check voicemails. I used to do this and I got into LOTS of trouble for being sneaky. FH was FURIOUS with me for being so dishonest and I tried to turn it around on him and be like 'Oh well if you dont have anything to hide than it should be no big deal' and then he told me he was gonna change his password and when I checked it was still the same so I know that he was testing me. Just be careful!!

lol i like that you got in trouble but checked it to see if he changed it anyway.
I haven't been like that with FH but i was a crazy biotch with my ex fiance.
Now when FH doesn't answer or pick up i don't assume he's cheating or anything, i just convince myself he's hurt or something. I freak myself out and then when he's fine i get mad at him. I have problems.

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:16 PM

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Posted by bemyyoko

Posted by NC1011

BEWARE to those of you who check voicemails. I used to do this and I got into LOTS of trouble for being sneaky. FH was FURIOUS with me for being so dishonest and I tried to turn it around on him and be like 'Oh well if you dont have anything to hide than it should be no big deal' and then he told me he was gonna change his password and when I checked it was still the same so I know that he was testing me. Just be careful!!

lol i like that you got in trouble but checked it to see if he changed it anyway.
I haven't been like that with FH but i was a crazy biotch with my ex fiance.
Now when FH doesn't answer or pick up i don't assume he's cheating or anything, i just convince myself he's hurt or something. I freak myself out and then when he's fine i get mad at him. I have problems.

u r NOT alone...

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Nov 18, 2007 10:18 PM

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OMG I CALL LIKE CRAZY!!! Then I leave nasty VMs but I don't feel so bad because he does the same to me.....the only thing I hate is when its a really long time and I get worried. Oh well....females are crazy!!! We want what we want when we want it!!!