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If I had my child to raise again

Elizabeth Posted:

If I had my child to raise again

I saw this on the wall in my pediatrician's office. The author is Diane Loomans, I think she writes books on children/parents and self esteem issues. I think it's beautiful and wanted to share it with all the other Mommies & Mommies to be


If I had my child to raise again,
I'd finger-paint more and point the finger less.
I'd do less correcting and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
I would care to know less and know to care more.
I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I'd run through more fields and gaze at more stars.
I'd do more hugging and less tugging.
I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.
I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I'd teach less about the love of power,
and more about the power of love.
anna Posted:

Re: If I had my child to raise again

Liz that was so MOVING
thanks sweetie !

Edited to add: I sure hope thats not 'me' 20 years from now !

I plan to DO all of the above
Elizabeth Posted:

Re: If I had my child to raise again

Seriously!! I hate to be reading that with sadness and regret.

I doubt that will be you Anna
jennbaby Posted:

Re: If I had my child to raise again

Thats so nice, I will send this to my friend

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