If my RSVP is October 1st...

when should I send them out? Thanks in advance

I would say last week of July. Definitely by August 1st the latest!!

2 months before! Is that too early

I sent mine out three months before, but that was because I had a lot of OOT guests. But I think two months is pretty standard. By the time you send them out and everyone gets them, and then trust me, it takes people two months to RSVP. I am still waiting for some responses and my wedding was almost three months ago.

I think that is way too early. I would send them the last week of August.

OMG, I am so sorry, I feel so stupid. Its been a bad day. I thought your wedding was Oct 1. Opps!! I think end of august is good. Boy do I feel dumb!!