If someone didn't show up to your wedding, would you say something?
trophywife
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If someone didn't show up to your wedding, would you say something?
We have a 'friend' who RSVP'd that she was coming to our wedding and didn't show up. No call, email, text - nothing. She has yet to acknowledge it and it's been 3 weeks now. She's been actively posting on Facebook so we know that it wasn't due to a personal crisis or some other tragedy.
Would you say something? We don't live in the same city as her, so we wouldn't see her anytime soon and I'm tempted to send an email -- it just bugs me. I mean, she could have at least TOLD us she wasn't going to come. Or said she was sorry after the fact.
I have a hard time letting it go because I want her to know that we noticed, and that it's NOT OKAY!!
lbkate
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ABSOLUTELY
gaby12886
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Absolutely say something! It is not okay for some to do that! She should have at the very least called and apologized to you about not coming....
AmyElizabeth
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Absolutely say something! It is not okay for some to do that! She should have at the very least called and apologized to you about not coming....
ITA!
That's really inconsiderate of her...
adelya21
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I would totally say something!
Windy
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I would!
kimmy02
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i agree! i would 100% say something!
Suzie4
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if your still thinking about it why not...if anything it will give you some peace of mind just to let it out
Nina1010
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I would definitely say something.
irisheyes23
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That happened to us to with 5 guests so I blocked them on Facebook and give them the silent treatment ( i know not mature). I block them from Facebook so they cant see pics of the wedding. LOL
Lucky2010
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I definitely would say something!
Future Mrs H
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I would- but I would do it as 'so did you forget to go somewhere recently?'
Cookie De La Devine
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I plan on being a big friggin jerk to anyone who does this to us - they deserve it if they didnt at least give you a heads up or a good excuse