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if someone else is paying for something...

christine2010 Posted:

if someone else is paying for something...

would it be rude if you didn't take them to see the vendor??

my brother & SIL are paying for the limos but i was going to go pick out what i wanted i just tell them how much. is that ok or rude?
Rosalind_75 Posted:

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halfbaked Posted:

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Yeah, if I was paying for something, I'd want to see where my money was going. And they are perfectly entitled to give you input on what to get.

DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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I would ask them if they mind and how much they had in mind because what you think they are giving you and what you are getting might be two different things.

Lsorrent Posted:

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I would take them. It'll make them feel more involved.

pjankowski Posted:

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I would pick out what I wanted first!!! But then bring whoever was paying to see ... after I already picked out the stuff if I didn't want to bring them with me.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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yeah i would at least offer them the chance to come.

MarjorieFrank Posted:

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I would offer for them to come or discuss how you are going to make an appoinment and see if they are interested in coming.

Rosalind_75 Posted:

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Posted by MrsC2010

yeah i would at least offer them the chance to come.


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StaceYums81 Posted:

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wow thats generous of them!

JC297 Posted:

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i would ask them what they wanted to spend and then book what i wanted and pay the difference.
Jna2010 Posted:

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i would ask if they want to come

AngnShaun Posted:

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I would definitely ask if they wanted to come and what they were considering spending...

Or you can research photogs/video and throw some prices at them so they have an idea of what they cost...
cavvento Posted:

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I would take them

mosh424 Posted:

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i personally would be offended if I was your brother and SIL. You should def. take them

JillandJoe Posted:

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nah, not if they know u did the most research u could...jmo

RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by jilliibabii

Yeah, if I was paying for something, I'd want to see where my money was going. And they are perfectly entitled to give you input on what to get.


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