If you were one of the guests of the Runaway Bride...

holly231 Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:04 PM

If you were one of the guests of the Runaway Bride...

And the wedding was 'rescheduled', how would you feel about going?

I do not think I would go...

I find it hard to believe that they WILL get married...

I feel if she could not talk to ANYONE about having 'cold feet', including her fiance, then maybe there is more the story...

If you are going to marry someone, you should be honest, and trusting with one another. In my opinion, she broke whatever trust there was.

On the other hand, if she was kidnapped, and then turned up, and she had nothing to do with it, I would go...

What are your thoughts?

btrflygrl Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:08 PM

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I would SO not go.....I would not support her actions. As I said in another post about her lying....in today's world being abducted is NOTHING to lie about. She should have admitted to at least ONE person that she had some fears.

EireBride-to-Be Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:08 PM

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I think I'd feel much the same as you...unless she was a very close friend, and i'd have to think about that...

clearly she has some much bigger problems

Moehick Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:09 PM

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Is the wedding rescheduled?

btrflygrl Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:10 PM

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Posted by EireBride-to-Be

I think I'd feel much the same as you...unless she was a very close friend

clearly she has some much bigger problems

ya know, even if SHE was a friend, I'd still be reconsidering my RSVP

holly231 Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:12 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by EireBride-to-Be

I think I'd feel much the same as you...unless she was a very close friend

clearly she has some much bigger problems

ya know, even if SHE was a friend, I'd still be reconsidering my RSVP

Mee too. I would not want to give a gift to them. And, I think tha her fiance is a little nutty for staying with her.

If I was in the bridal party, I think I would reconsider too.

JimmysBride Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:16 PM

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As a guest, I probably would not go.

If I were HER though, I wouldn't DREAM of doing a big wedding again. I would go to a JOP or Vegas or do something way more intimate.

TracyInQueens Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:28 PM

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I don't see them having a big wedding. I can see people being offended. I would be too.

I will be very surprised if they actually marry. IMO, he's got a screw loose too if he still wants to marry her.

MrsERod Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:29 PM

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i wouldn't go!

RedHead Posted: Apr 30, 2005 09:30 PM

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I don't know....I think that it really depends on who i was to them...

If i was one of her guests NO i would not go...

If i was one of his guests...i would support him and his decisions, even if i disagreed!

FireIslandLove Posted: May 01, 2005 12:37 AM

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I wouldn't go. If she doesn't take her own wedding seriously, why should I?

1017Bride Posted: May 01, 2005 01:14 AM

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That is horrible to make her loved ones think she was abducted!

1017Bride Posted: May 01, 2005 01:14 AM

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So no I would not go!

MrsP2Be Posted: May 01, 2005 03:01 PM

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If she was related to me (closely) or a good friend yes, otherwise no.

Butterflybride Posted: May 01, 2005 03:04 PM

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I wouldn't go

kim Posted: May 01, 2005 03:26 PM

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no way!

glinda_goodwitch Posted: May 01, 2005 04:01 PM

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I wouldn't go, but I think there is probably no way it will be rescheduled. Think of the poor fiance! I wouldn't be very forgiving if someone did that to me.

suven Posted: May 01, 2005 04:11 PM

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I totally would NOT go! To me, after the entire nation got involved, I wouldn't even consider the runaway bride to be my friend anymore.

Diane Posted: May 01, 2005 04:12 PM

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me either, would NOT go.

bedda26 Posted: May 01, 2005 08:26 PM

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Posted by RedHead

I don't know....I think that it really depends on who i was to them...

If i was one of her guests NO i would not go...

If i was one of his guests...i would support him and his decisions, even if i disagreed!

I agree...I would go if I were one of his guest to support him. Of course I would think he was crazy for marrying her but I would still go to support him.

If I were one of her guests...Forget it...