If your getting Married at your hall.....

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:20 PM

If your getting Married at your hall.....

Are you having a rehersal dinner? If so what do you do bc your not going to goto the hall to practice right? Im so confused and Im not quite sure what Im supposed to do lol

marrymybestfriend Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:29 PM

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we are actually going to our hall to practice. they should let you do that.

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:34 PM

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really? I never would have thought to ask. lol. I guess that why I need a wedding planner to let me know what im suposed to do bc apparently im totally dumb when it comes to what to do next lol

JillandJoe Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:34 PM

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I will be demanding that I come practice, even just really quickly. If they are really against doing in at night because of other events then maybe we will do a rehearsal brunch and do it one morning. Idk I gotta make a call and see what their policy is on that

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:35 PM

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Im getting married on a friday. I was thinking of doing the rehersal thurs and then going back to the hotel to stay with my OOT guests and BP. Is that too much? Should I make it Wed?

T E R I Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:36 PM

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they are just telling us quick walk through right before the ceremony, were not doing an actual rehersal at the hall

MrsList09 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:39 PM

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Call your hall and ask if they do rehearsals. My sister got married at East Wind and she had one but they're not doing one at my hall. We're just doing a dinner at a restaurant and talk about the order and how things will go at dinner.

Kimmypie143 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:43 PM

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Thanks everyone such big helps. I will ask my hall!

rocketsummer17 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:47 PM

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definately ask them for one...and if they dont do it then the bridal attendant will more than likely tell everyone what to do right before they walk down the aisle

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:50 PM

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very good question I would assume most will let your practice. I will have to call as well just to double check!

Espo22 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 03:52 PM

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they only let you practice day of your wedding, like 30 mins prior but most RH's wont do a Rehearsal before that, call first and see what they say.

Everyone i know who got married at the RH didnt do a rehearsal and had no RD bc of it. But you can always do a dinner for your bp and parents as a thank you

LaurenJosh Posted: Feb 02, 2009 04:01 PM

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I am just going to have a quick rehearsal in the restaurant before the rehearsal dinner.

MrsC2010 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 04:04 PM

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we are doing the rehearsal dinner on thursday night.....but there will not really be a 'rehearsal' at the hall...we will just do the dinner at a restaurant and they will run through what to do the day of

marrymybestfriend Posted: Feb 02, 2009 04:05 PM

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we are getting amrried on a saturday night... and flowerfield said that we can come in for a rehersal, but it has to be when there isnt a wedding (obviously), so we are having our rehersal on a wednesday night

eternitybride Posted: Feb 02, 2009 04:14 PM

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we will be doing one the morning of the wedding, just a quick run through, how to stand, where the Bridal party goes, etc. I dont know about a rehearsal dinner, I may do 'hey everyone, here is my hotel suite, I will have pizza, who wants to come', but we may not be able to afford anythign formal

I Love Paolo Posted: Feb 02, 2009 04:38 PM

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I am getting married in a church that does not do rehersals for whatever reason or another. We are still going ot have a RD because I wanted an opportunity to thank everyone in the bridal party and give the gifts out.

My sister got married at Flowerfields and they left plenty of time in advance for a rehersal. It's not common that they let you reherse the day before. But like the other ladies said.. call and see what they sat.

marrymybestfriend Posted: Feb 02, 2009 04:48 PM

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if you walk into your hall... any hall... on a wednesday night... whats going on??? nothing. they are probably showing the place to recently engaged people. so why wouldnt you be able to go there for a rehersal??

i actually just called our BM at flowerfield and she said people go in there all the time for rehersals.

Sandradv121 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:33 PM

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If my hall allows it, than yes. But if not, my DOC said we can do it at any gazebo ( The surf club has a gazebo on the beach) just to get the feel. Afterward, than the Rehersal Dinner can begin.

StaceYums81 Posted: Feb 02, 2009 08:44 PM

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Kim you should definitely ask about a rehearsal. I know at mine they will allow it. I'm not yet sure if we're gonna do one. But even if you don't do the rehearsal until right before,, you still have a rehearsal dinner because that is where you thank everyone and give out bp gifts etc...