If I remember correctly you wanted a light house themed wedding right? I don't know if this would be too far out for you but check out this brides review...she has a lot of great pics with the light house...
thanks so much fro remembering and the link, her wedding looks amazing, and i wish i can have it in Montauk since it's where we got engaged, but unfortunatlly it like a 3hr drive from ny, so it wouldnt work, but maybe i can steal some ideas from her
