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im a mess

cateydee Posted:

im a mess

i am sick of this wedding
i told FH that i am totally stressed about the wedding that im forgetting about the marriage. i have all these STUPID little details to take care of and i cant delegate them. everything's hanging over my head and i cant focus at work. i sit here all day long and refresh LIW, check FB, check email, open the window, close the window, go to the bathroom. thats it. i cant stand it and im hating everythign including myself. i need this month to go by fast so i can go back to normal
thanks for listening
MrsC2010 Posted:

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hang in there hun!! your almost there!!

there were so many times at the end of the planning where I was going crazy bc of stress and just cried and said I couldnt wait til this was all over. But trust me the day will be totally amazing and worth all the stress!! You are going to have a fabulous day!!
regy_k Posted:

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u sound like me the last month
sorry, I find it funny and so will u around july 10th or so

everything was on me as well, ^%%&$^&(%$%$##$@$%!!!!!
just keep thinking of the honeymoon thats what got me thru it
halfbaked Posted:

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It's gonna go flying by and it's going to be wonderful. Try not to stress too much. There were some projects that I had to just let go at the end because there wasn't enough time, energy, and money to complete them. I was sad, but it was FINE! Try not to go too crazy!
FutureCap Posted:

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yep... timing sounds about right!
WE ALL GO THROUGH THIS! its gets to the point where its just not fun anymore. it will pass, i promise!!!

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Aw, youre so close. Its almost here!

Sorry you are feeling like that! It'll all be worth it.
MrsSx2 Posted:

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Awwww! Hang in there, its almost over!!! Less than 1 month to go and things will be back to normal!!! You can do it!!!
joctorre Posted:

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Awwwww.. I'm so sorry!!!!!!!!!!!
jennybee Posted:

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You're definitely not alone! Maybe we all just need a few margaritas!!!

I'm going through it now and have a couple of times in the last few months. Stuff adds up and starts to feel overwhelming. Take a day or two and clear your head. And rely on all your friends and family to help you and take some of the burden off you...

Feel better
laurenandmike618 Posted:

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hey!!

my wedding is only 12 days away and let me tell you what has helped me tremendously. for the four weeks leading up to the wedding, i broke down my running list into weeks. so i would put 'for the week of may 31st,' 'for the week of june 7th,' etc... and let me tell you it helps sooo much. when you look at a list that's 3 pages long and with only 4 weeks to do it, you shut down. but when you break it down, it makes it so much more doable and it also forces you to get those things done each week. when sunday rolls around, you have such a feeling of relief and accomplishment.

FM me if you'd like to chat.
nanpink Posted:

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I'm feeling the same way. I guess it's just normal. Things will fall into place - you'll see. Hang in there!!!

20mrsc10 Posted:

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im starting to get to that point too..i've always been obsessed with weddings, and at this point im just stressed out beyond belief--for me it's not really the wedding though, bc im almost done with all that-its more work and moving

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