Post New Topic

i'm about ready to freak out!

kristi313 Posted:

i'm about ready to freak out!

i can't make a wedding decision and stick to it! I order things, get them and then return them b/c i change my mind. i'm driving myself crazy. i'm giving up on this wedding. i need help!

2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

I hope that's normal because I do it all the time. You are not alone. My family and FH make fun of me. I booked two halls (made the first two payments on the first hall). Just laugh it off and STOP looking once you pick something out. I would be on my 12th dress now if I didn't stop looking.

ChristineAaron08 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

i agree- stop looking

we all tend to like so may different things and ideas that we will just drive ourselves nuts

what did you return?
kristi313 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by ChristineAaron08

i agree- stop looking

we all tend to like so may different things and ideas that we will just drive ourselves nuts

what did you return?



remember those placecard frames and table # holders with the shells??? well they are going back, i went back to just plain silver frames
mao0426 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

Another thing that I would say is wait till closer to get the little things done that way you can see alot more and then make your decision. I dont mean wait till the last minute but give yourself more time to look

emomma17 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

OMG you are not alone! I wish I could turn that part of my brain off I don't think I've made a decision yet and stuck to it!!!! I am learning that I am the worst decision maker while planning this wedding!!!
ChristineAaron08 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by kristi313


Posted by ChristineAaron08

i agree- stop looking

we all tend to like so may different things and ideas that we will just drive ourselves nuts

what did you return?



remember those placecard frames and table # holders with the shells??? well they are going back, i went back to just plain silver frames



lol- why?? they are nice

you are to funny

are you not doing the beaching thing now?
kristi313 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by mao0426

Another thing that I would say is wait till closer to get the little things done that way you can see alot more and then make your decision. I dont mean wait till the last minute but give yourself more time to look



i would love to be able to wait, but it's virtually impossible, i won't have a free moment to myself until may - i work for an accountant so i have long nights and working weekends ahead of me for the next few months. i have to jam stuff in as soon as i can it's very frustrating
madseason Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

You are definitley not alone....I change my mind everyday! I freak out and buy everything thinking ill never see it again...and then later find something better! The wedding will be perfect no matter what! The only 2 things I have stuck with are my dress and my BM gowns that i Loooove everything else has been switched around!
kristi313 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by ChristineAaron08


Posted by kristi313


Posted by ChristineAaron08

i agree- stop looking

we all tend to like so may different things and ideas that we will just drive ourselves nuts

what did you return?



remember those placecard frames and table # holders with the shells??? well they are going back, i went back to just plain silver frames



lol- why?? they are nice

you are to funny

are you not doing the beaching thing now?



I don't know, i go back and forth. i think i may still do some shells scattered around but i think those things got me nervous that i was going to beachyish, im so indecisive!!!!! plus i think the plain silver frames will be of more use to my guests
ChristineAaron08 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by kristi313


Posted by ChristineAaron08


Posted by kristi313


Posted by ChristineAaron08

i agree- stop looking

we all tend to like so may different things and ideas that we will just drive ourselves nuts

what did you return?



remember those placecard frames and table # holders with the shells??? well they are going back, i went back to just plain silver frames



lol- why?? they are nice

you are to funny

are you not doing the beaching thing now?



I don't know, i go back and forth. i think i may still do some shells scattered around but i think those things got me nervous that i was going to beachyish, im so indecisive!!!!! plus i think the plain silver frames will be of more use to my guests



yeah- you really cant go wrong with plain ones

ok- but stop changing your mind- haha
Ms Sawney Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

when you see what you want get it and stop looking you will keep changing your mind if you keep looking

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

im the same way!!! i keep changing my mind on everything also!!!

cbcf Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

aww kristi that is why i let everyone else make decisions for me...like FH i call him up and ask him what he wants or i ask my mom to pick something for me after giving her several choices hahaha I am sooo indecisive in any situation and with any decisions so the wedding stresses me out to much to make decisions on my own

but stop looking!!! just return the frames and then step away from the computer haha!!! or at least wedding websites besides liw then you won't be tempted anymore to change your ideas!
kristi313 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by cbcf

aww kristi that is why i let everyone else make decisions for me...like FH i call him up and ask him what he wants or i ask my mom to pick something for me after giving her several choices hahaha I am sooo indecisive in any situation and with any decisions so the wedding stresses me out to much to make decisions on my own

but stop looking!!! just return the frames and then step away from the computer haha!!! or at least wedding websites besides liw then you won't be tempted anymore to change your ideas!



i'll see what i can do
Toucan311 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

Lets trade weddings.. you plan for mine, I'll plan for yours...
kristi313 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by Mimacat

Lets trade weddings.. you plan for mine, I'll plan for yours...



sounds good to me!
Kimbalina Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

I agree!! No more shopping for you! Keep your eyes shut!

anamaree77 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!

I'm with you and can't make a decision on ANYTHING!!!! At least you're buying stuff and making an attempt........aww my poor wedding, haha.

Don't beat yourself up, you're just trying to make sure it's all perfect....and it will be!
kristi313 Posted:

Re: i'm about ready to freak out!


Posted by Kimbalina

I agree!! No more shopping for you! Keep your eyes shut!



but i love shopping (stomps her feet and goes to her room)

Reply to this topic

Log in to reply or quote a post.