im at my wits end vent really long -update

Im so done living here, Today the phone rang at 8:15 the morning and it was a bill collector and they wanted to get paid so my mom told them that she will make a payment on Monday. So i woke up and i said to me mom how are you going to pay it? Ans she was like i can go to the store and pay it i said no you cant they arent taken pymt anymore you have to pay it on the phone or over the internet and my mom was like you can do it then. I said that no im not Chris can do it. Then my mom was like that is it. I was like im not doing anything anymore beccuz i get nothing in return and she like ok then you will get nothing from me. I was like fine. I was like you keep telling me that you are going to giv e me stuff for my wedding and you never do and i do so much for you. then she tells me that she isnt going to the wedding and to count her and my father out. I said that is fine dad has never loved me anyway and i dont want him walking down the isle anyway and thay my name isnt chris(daddy girl) im nothing in the family just do this and do that. So now i take a stand with this. Then i tell my mom that i always get screwed in the end just like you gave chris and eddie 7000 for my wedding and i get nothing, also you say that you are going to pay for things and you dont. Then she processes to tell me that you need to move out and get an apt and see if you can pay for this wedding and live in an apt. then my mom and dad started calling me a low life b/c i dont have a job yet and all i do it sit home and do nothing. Ive so had it here and cant take it anymore. Only if i had enough money ill move out. They are talking downstair right now on what they are going to do with my room when i leave. i cant take it anymore i really cant, i put up with this for so long.they are yelling because they want to know when im moving out. I just want to leave and never come back....

Sorry so long

I understand EXACTLEY how you feel....My family doesn't have much at all to do with my wedding.....I don't have brother, but I have a sister who is four years older than me and she still lives at home and she is THE BIGGEST SCREW UP EVER!!!!!!! So because she can't stand on her own two feet, I get screwed out of [email protected] know that you are not alone and if you need to vent more FM me.....I have said to FH thousands of times that I just want to move away and never see any of them again.....fortunatley I am living upstate right now away from them (but away from FH too ) but I am moving back to LI in 2 and a half months and I told FH that we better have an apt by then because I refuse to move back in with my parents....it is the exact same thing with my family, nobody is ever there when I need something, BUT I am ALWAYS the person everyone calls when they need something......All I can say is just try and bide your time their and hopefully you will be out of the house soon enough!!!!!

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Posted by Soccadoc13

I understand EXACTLEY how you feel....My family doesn't have much at all to do with my wedding.....I don't have brother, but I have a sister who is four years older than me and she still lives at home and she is THE BIGGEST SCREW UP EVER!!!!!!! So because she can't stand on her own two feet, I get screwed out of [email protected] know that you are not alone and if you need to vent more FM me.....I have said to FH thousands of times that I just want to move away and never see any of them again.....fortunatley I am living upstate right now away from them (but away from FH too ) but I am moving back to LI in 2 and a half months and I told FH that we better have an apt by then because I refuse to move back in with my parents....it is the exact same thing with my family, nobody is ever there when I need something, BUT I am ALWAYS the person everyone calls when they need something......All I can say is just try and bide your time their and hopefully you will be out of the house soon enough!!!!!

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we are like family twins. Wow are you sure we arent related??

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Posted by vicky1125

don't let it get to you. you're getting married and moving out and will have your own family soon and wont have to deal with them. i felt the same about my older sister from my father's first marriage. our father's sister (my aunt) and his mother were always closer to his first daughter but i eventually just let it go. nothing you can do about it. cant teach old dogs new tricks. would you even bother speakin to your parents about the situation or no?

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i have and they say that it will change but it just gets worst.

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Posted by kabo0831

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Posted by Soccadoc13

I understand EXACTLEY how you feel....My family doesn't have much at all to do with my wedding.....I don't have brother, but I have a sister who is four years older than me and she still lives at home and she is THE BIGGEST SCREW UP EVER!!!!!!! So because she can't stand on her own two feet, I get screwed out of [email protected] know that you are not alone and if you need to vent more FM me.....I have said to FH thousands of times that I just want to move away and never see any of them again.....fortunatley I am living upstate right now away from them (but away from FH too ) but I am moving back to LI in 2 and a half months and I told FH that we better have an apt by then because I refuse to move back in with my parents....it is the exact same thing with my family, nobody is ever there when I need something, BUT I am ALWAYS the person everyone calls when they need something......All I can say is just try and bide your time their and hopefully you will be out of the house soon enough!!!!!

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we are like family twins. Wow are you sure we arent related??

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LOL maybe so....but then is would be better cause we would have someone in the family that understood!!!!

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Posted by Soccadoc13

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Posted by kabo0831

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Posted by Soccadoc13

I understand EXACTLEY how you feel....My family doesn't have much at all to do with my wedding.....I don't have brother, but I have a sister who is four years older than me and she still lives at home and she is THE BIGGEST SCREW UP EVER!!!!!!! So because she can't stand on her own two feet, I get screwed out of [email protected] know that you are not alone and if you need to vent more FM me.....I have said to FH thousands of times that I just want to move away and never see any of them again.....fortunatley I am living upstate right now away from them (but away from FH too ) but I am moving back to LI in 2 and a half months and I told FH that we better have an apt by then because I refuse to move back in with my parents....it is the exact same thing with my family, nobody is ever there when I need something, BUT I am ALWAYS the person everyone calls when they need something......All I can say is just try and bide your time their and hopefully you will be out of the house soon enough!!!!!

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we are like family twins. Wow are you sure we arent related??

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LOL maybe so....but then is would be better cause we would have someone in the family that understood!!!!

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that is true

I'm sorry you're going through this, it seems hard for me ti give advice on this because it seems like there's so much going on. Only thing I could tell you right now is to lay low, and take care of the things you need to take care of for you. I hope everything works out, and if you need anything, please feel free to FM me!

awwwww sorry honey. Hang in