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i'm baaaaaack..wedding review and vent (all in one)

J79 Posted:

i'm baaaaaack..wedding review and vent (all in one)

kedra5 Posted:

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Sorry about the momma drama...thats never good. Especially at a wedding!!!!

Sounds like the wedding was beautiful though...any pictures to share?
J79 Posted:

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yep. i took pictures just for you guys!! i'll post in a little...after some of the jetlag wears off

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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poor grandma!

Sounds like an eventful wedding, sorry about the drama...sounds liek fsil had too much wine or something to say that shiet right there

J79 Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

poor grandma!

Sounds like an eventful wedding, sorry about the drama...sounds liek fsil had too much wine or something to say that shiet right there




leighlo1226 Posted:

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Yikes- FMIL sounds like the stereotypical 'what about me? pay attention to me!' FMIL

I have one of those too

Poor Grandma and poor your feet! Sounds like it was nice but could've been a lot better!
MissingLI Posted:

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Sounds eventful. Did FH tell his sister to go screw or what? That is so not the time or place for that.

I feel bad for the bride and groom regarding grandma, that must have been so scary. Was it hot out?

As for the grass, did they not put anything in the invite that said outdoor ceremony or grass? That would have helped the guests to avoid what you went through.
J79 Posted:

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Posted by leighlo1226

Yikes- FMIL sounds like the stereotypical 'what about me? pay attention to me!' FMIL
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J79 Posted:

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Posted by MissingLI



I feel bad for the bride and groom regarding grandma, that must have been so scary. Was it hot out?

As for the grass, did they not put anything in the invite that said outdoor ceremony or grass? That would have helped the guests to avoid what you went through.


leighlo1226 Posted:

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Posted by J79


Posted by leighlo1226

Yikes- FMIL sounds like the stereotypical 'what about me? pay attention to me!' FMIL
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BINGO! actually an understatement. I personally think she is so jealous of the relationship I have with her ex husbands wife...ie. FH's stepmom. she's just looking to blaim someone. she's very manipulative and it may have worked on FH and FSIL but it will not work on me.

I think us ALL being at the wedding in the same place she witnessed how close I am with FH's stepmom



Yea, I hear ya. I constantly have to be reminded by FH to pay more attention to his mom when we are places and to call her during the week. But all she does is talk crap about other people!! I keep my mouth shut and smile- but it's crazyyy!

I went out of my way to make her feel included in the process. Hell, my mom and my sister took FMIL out to lunch and to see our RH when I was working just to help me out and make her feel included. But that wasn't good enough- she probably wants a notification in writing every time FH and I book something else. She's not contributing 1 cent and has this nerve.

What's with FMIL having such a warped sense of entitlement?!!? LOL I don't get it!!
chreesta Posted:

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Sorry about the drama!

The wedding sounded beautiful though!
J79 Posted:

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pics are uploaded
allornil Posted:

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she feels entitled bc she gave birth to him. you know, that entitles her to everything in her eyes. and it's obvious that she's jealous that step mom is involved. all you can do is say really? ok, sure and walk away. have FH tell her to get a grip. obviously the stepmother has become a part of their lives and FSIL is maybe resentful?

ugh grass + heels = HATE for me.





J79 Posted:

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Posted by allornil

she feels entitled bc she gave birth to him. you know, that entitles her to everything in her eyes. and it's obvious that she's jealous that step mom is involved. all you can do is say really? ok, sure and walk away. have FH tell her to get a grip. obviously the stepmother has become a part of their lives and FSIL is maybe resentful?

ugh grass + heels = HATE for me.







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