I'm CONSTANTLY crying over here!! I dont know what is going on!!??
JenniferLee111204
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I'm CONSTANTLY crying over here!! I dont know what is going on!!??
Ladies, my wedding is tomorrow and I keep on having meltdowns for no reason! I'm totally woozy (i was to put it nicely barfing yesterday) im going to be a wet, soaking mess tomorrow.. any advice?? how do i not look like i was in a fight with the mascara running down my face??? help me!
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To look on the bright side, you might cry out all your emotions today and so you will be calm tomorrow??? Wishful thinking!
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Please don't let it get to you! It's normal to feel all of those emotions......I thought I would be a big wet mess on my wedding day also - but I was surprisingly dry! It's like a surreal experience...and I'm sure you'll be fine! Just dont' cry too much later in the day, because your eyes might still be swollen tomorrow
JenniferLee111204
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i hope so! this is ridiculous!
SFP0214
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Oh boy... That's probably just all the excitement, exhastion, emotion, nerves and months of planning for a day that is finally here all spilling over. Try waterproof mascara. Put teabags on your eyes to reduce swelling. Maybe ask Fh for a nice massage before the RD (if that is tonight)... drink a cup of tea.
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try to relax! everything will be fine! the massage is a great idea! maybe you will get it all out of your system today so tomorrow you will be calm!
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Yes, hopefully you're just getting it all out of the way now and you'll be fine for the wedding.
didianita
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Posted by palebride
Please don't let it get to you! It's normal to feel all of those emotions......I thought I would be a big wet mess on my wedding day also - but I was surprisingly dry! It's like a surreal experience...and I'm sure you'll be fine! Just dont' cry too much later in the day, because your eyes might still be swollen tomorrow
I agree, relax you have to enjoy your day. The only time I cried was when I was walking down the aisle and stopped when I saw dh. You have one day!!
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I havent made it down the aisle yet but........ Jenn, Take lots of deep breaths and relax! Its going to be an amazing day! Some good waterproof mascara will help if you shed some tears.
Dont worry.....you are going to look beautiful!!! Wish you all the best on your day!!!
jozieb0925
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Hi!!
I was really worried of the same thing when I got married. I actually stored tissues inbetween my boobs just incase I started balling. But, you would be surprised because I think all of the excitement, anxiety, and craziness that day prevented me from crying.
PS. I am a really emotional person and cry at EVERYTHING.
Good luck.
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For the whole week of my wedding I was a nauseous mess. I couldn't eat anything. The day of my wedding I was fine as can be. It's all nerves and hopefully you'll feel better by tomorrow.
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there there bride! what HUGE event you're facing...do you have time today to go to place or room by yourself and just kinda meditate and clear your head for 15 minutes? try and really relax and then think about your DH and all the GOOD things. then i'd get a massage and have one glass of wine to unwind.
its all going to be wonderful!
Bunnymonkey
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This is normal! It's okay - the more you fight it and get frustrated and upset by your welling up, the more you are going to well up!
Accept it, breathe deeply, laugh at it, and recognize that this is a huge, special, wondeful, amazing time and you should take in every moment! You are going to be fine on the day. Every one of my friends thought they would be a slobberng mess all day, but were not. Palebride said it - It becomes very surreal and you will float through it.
Let it all out - it's okay!!
you are going to be wonderful...
Robinella
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Heck my wedding isnt for another 317 days and ive been crying twice a day for the past week or so lol I can only imagine what im gonna be like the day before my wedding. I hope you feel better, its probably just the stress of it all coming to a close..dont think about it and just enjoy YOUR day!!
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I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better
I know you're upset about the rain, but the wedding is INSIDE. Everyone will be warm, toasty (and buzzed!!) for your reception!
I wish you nothing but the best!
JenniferLee111204
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you girls are seriously the BEST! i feel so much better after reading all of your replys.
i have to say that the weather is not bothering me at all, in fact i really dont care if it rains to be honest.
i am feeling overwhelmed and anxious, and cant wait to show all of you pics!! i cant believe its here!!
jennifer
durso1
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im worried about the same thing..i did the weekend pre cana and cried the whole three days..happy tears of course but im a mess of happy emotions!!!
tray831
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Yes drink tea, drink Chamomile Tea, its so calming!!!!!
I think once you have your dress on and have your hair and make up done, you just may be too excited to even shed a tear, all you can do is probably laugh and smile!
jj04
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Try to relax and enjoy all this excitment...it is all part of the fun...tomorrow is your day, take it all in and enjoy it all ..good luck and best wishes.
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Ms. Lee, you are going to have a splendid day. You had a fun and loving shower, and a courtship that has led you to tomorrow's blessed event. Even if you still cry, it will be just fine. If you don't cry, that's fine, too. Just enjoy your day and God bless you both! Can't believe it's already here.
