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Mrs_B Posted:

im depressed

I just weighed myself and I am sooooo disgusted with what the scale said. Since FH and I have been together I have gained 10-15 lbs!!!!!!!!
I am sooo disappointed in myself because for the entire year before we got together, I lost 30 lbs and was going to the gym religiously every single day. So now I am only down 15 lbs from my original weight and now I have to work even harder to get to where I need to be.
The past 2 weeks werent any help either since FH was off from work so I was lazy and slept in instead of getting up to go to the gym. Tomorrow my arse is going to be up at 5:45, no ifs, ands or butts about it!!!!!!!!
LadyPrincess Posted:

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we are all going back to the gym...cheer up
yr not alone...
amyandeddie Posted:

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I know how you feel- but hey it's part of life- I love food and FH is the best chef in the world- so I'm screwed, but I know theres no point in getting upset over it- you just have to buckle down and make the commitment- you'll be fine!

JPC1125 Posted:

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soory sweetie

i know what it feels like- you are NOT alone in this

but dont measure your success by scale...measure it by clothes size...its so much better


ravens_bride Posted:

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You've got plenty of company! I'm not impresses with the scale one bit these days. The worst is my middle which also needs toning and weight loss. We will all make it happen!
Mrs_B Posted:

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Thanks ladies! I know that once I get back on track at the gym I will begin to feel better! It just sucks right now, I hate looking in the mirror!
Jen2999 Posted:

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Ugh I so know how you feel!

junebride! Posted:

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Me too!!!!

Butterflybride Posted:

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I gained 20 and I was miserable about it. Now I have to wait to lose that weight though and by that point I'm going to have a lot more weight to lose.

Marisa M Posted:

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Oh god - Welcome to my Fat world !!!
I have until May to drop 20 - 25 lbs.......when you think about it in terms of months......You can ABSOLUTELY do it !!! I have to lose 5 lbs a month .........Totally Do -able.......Now it's crunch time !! Don't beat yourself up - Just get your a$$ in gear !!!!
Mrs_B Posted:

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Posted by Marisa M

Oh god - Welcome to my Fat world !!!
I have until May to drop 20 - 25 lbs.......when you think about it in terms of months......You can ABSOLUTELY do it !!! I have to lose 5 lbs a month .........Totally Do -able.......Now it's crunch time !! Don't beat yourself up - Just get your a$$ in gear !!!!

I know, I just hate looking at myself now, I feel soooo gross! I was looking at old pics today and I cant believe how much I have gained!
Marisa M Posted:

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Posted by Future_Mrs_B


Posted by Marisa M

Oh god - Welcome to my Fat world !!!
I have until May to drop 20 - 25 lbs.......when you think about it in terms of months......You can ABSOLUTELY do it !!! I have to lose 5 lbs a month .........Totally Do -able.......Now it's crunch time !! Don't beat yourself up - Just get your a$$ in gear !!!!

I know, I just hate looking at myself now, I feel soooo gross! I was looking at old pics today and I cant believe how much I have gained!



I hear ya - My damn clothes don't fit me !!! Somewhere the old size 6 me is hiding !!!!!!! I WILL find her again !!!!
M&LSept1606 Posted:

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this should make you feel better. I've gained 50 pounds since I've known my FH. (It's been 6 years, but I'm averaging 8-9 pounds a year!) I have to get this *** to the gym. That's for sure.

KimberlyBride Posted:

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I know how you feel.

PerfectPair05 Posted:

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I had lost about 35lb (and still had some more to go) before I started dating FH... then when we started dating I quit smoking several months later and immediately packed on about 25lb ... I feel your pain and am on your side.

Going back to the gym as of tomorrow. I have 4 months before my dress comes in for my first fitting and I hope to lose as close to 40-45lb as possible.

We will push eachother
jimmysgrl Posted:

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Posted by LoriSantagata

this should make you feel better. I've gained 50 pounds since I've known my FH. (It's been 6 years, but I'm averaging 8-9 pounds a year!) I have to get this *** to the gym. That's for sure.



Thats exactly how much I've gained! Aren't we talented
MrsA814 Posted:

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I'm doing the samething. Losing weight. My dress is alittle tight. Started today.

azoodie Posted:

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diana!!!

i can't believe you're beating yourself up!!!! you are doing so awesome dragging your butt to the gym like every morning!! that is not easy and you've been doing great!!

just stay focused, it's a new year, new beginning...you can do it girlfriend!
jesslangen Posted:

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Ugh, I definitely know what you guts are saying. I joined weight watchers yesterday in an attempt to lose that holiday weight plus some so I can look my best for our honeymoon! According to weight watchers I need to lose 15 pounds to be considered 'average'. I don't think thats too difficult, just have to stay on it.

But, good luck all, I'm sure we can do it!

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