I'm feeling Overwhelmed

anamaree77 Posted: Jan 24, 2008 09:43 AM

I'm feeling Overwhelmed

I was just checking out that Thursday Countdown and realized that I have about 4 months and 27 days until my wedding.....

It sort of just hit me like a smack in the face and I feel so behind. I haven't even decided on the BM dresses yet, let alone ordered them! ughghghghgh!

Anyone else as bad as me?? heheh.

SparkyandAng Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:03 AM

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Posted by anamaree77

I was just checking out that Thursday Countdown and realized that I have about 4 months and 27 days until my wedding.....

It sort of just hit me like a smack in the face and I feel so behind. I haven't even decided on the BM dresses yet, let alone ordered them! ughghghghgh!

Anyone else as bad as me?? heheh.

Well my wedding is in october so I have a little more time, but do not have a dress, a headpiece, shoes, BM's dresses, a honeymoon (not even an idea), no idea on favors, or placecards, or menus or invites...so I'd say I'm pretty far behind too.
good luck! Everyone keeps saying it will get done, I certainly hope so.

anamaree77 Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:06 AM

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I hear you!! Some of the girls have everything so together and all these great ideas....wish they'd rub off on me!! hahahhaha.

SparkyandAng Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:08 AM

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Me too...maybe we can drink the same water they are drinking.

mariaobride Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:08 AM

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annamaree- you are not doing bad what else do you have left to do ? I would get the dresses out of the way incase of delivery time. If you need any help or suggestions FM me

MD835 Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:08 AM

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i feel the same way -- the girls here are so on top of this game! makes me feel like a total slacker!!

MrsMorgan Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:08 AM

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I feel the same way....I have so many things left to do....it can be very overwhelming and I am the most indecisive person in the world so that makes everything all the more stressful....Good Luck.....I guess we will get through it

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:10 AM

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Don't stress!!!! It won't help. Take a deep breathe and start one thing at a time.

My wedding is in 8 months and I still haven't booked any Vendors. I think we are booking the DJ this weekend. But we are looking into everything!!! I didn't even look or decide on BM Dresses yet!!!

Ms Sawney Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:13 AM

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I still have to get a photographer, videographer, limo, figure out my dj situation I have alot to do I am just so behind

TJ22908 Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:15 AM

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i know the feeling!! My wedding is in 36 days and we still haven't picked out favors, booked a limo, booked the RH dinner, and I'm sure theres plenty of other things I'm forgetting but I know somehow things always seem to work themselves out and everything will be done. I would def do the BM dresses asap cause you don't want to have to pay extra for faster shipping..but everything will work out don't stress!!!

anamaree77 Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:39 AM

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That's true...things do usually have a way of working ok....

OK I'm breathing easier now. I think I have to make a checklist of absolutely EVERYTHING I have left to do. I'll probably hyperventilate at first HAHA but then I guess I can start doing it one little check at a time.....

TJ22908 Posted: Jan 24, 2008 10:43 AM

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Posted by anamaree77

That's true...things do usually have a way of working ok....

OK I'm breathing easier now. I think I have to make a checklist of absolutely EVERYTHING I have left to do. I'll probably hyperventilate at first HAHA but then I guess I can start doing it one little check at a time.....

Thats the best way to go about it. I keep making lists but somehow I never cross anything off!!!

staceycostigan Posted: Jan 24, 2008 11:21 AM

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I keep making lists... and sometimes I put things on it that I just did.. just to make me feel like I accomplished something!!! I need to get my act together.. but now I am trying to figure out what to do in my house too!!! Its so overwhelming!

Celest Posted: Jan 24, 2008 11:43 AM

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I am sooo with you on that. I almost went crazy last night looking at everything I need to do & I am the week before you.. so I am more nervous!!!

RadiantBride Posted: Jan 24, 2008 11:47 AM

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It's ok..... Trust me slowly but surely things will get to normal. Suggestion try to decide your BM dresses asap as those can take a really long time to come in. My dresses are coming in about 2 weeks before the wedding.
FM me if you want me to suggest some sites/vendors for you to try.