I'm freaking out a bit...

Anthonysgirl Posted: Sep 28, 2009 02:50 PM

I'm freaking out a bit...

So we've been getting our RSVP's back and then have been all yes! Don't get me wrong I'm very happy that they are all yes but we were hoping to get some no's as well. Everyone I speak to says invite over your min so that you are sure to have atleast that. So we did and I'm just waiting for the no's to come. Friends of mine say not to worry because the no's come at the latest date possible. Ahh...oh well we'll see what happens

MrsGRod09 Posted: Sep 28, 2009 03:05 PM

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I wouldn't freak out yet. When is your RSVP date?

RPMG26599 Posted: Sep 28, 2009 03:07 PM

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Posted by Anthonysgirl

So we've been getting our RSVP's back and then have been all yes! Don't get me wrong I'm very happy that they are all yes but we were hoping to get some no's as well. Everyone I speak to says invite over your min so that you are sure to have atleast that. So we did and I'm just waiting for the no's to come. Friends of mine say not to worry because the no's come at the latest date possible. Ahh...oh well we'll see what happens

Same here!! FH and I invited over what we wanted cause everyone said to expect at least 20% no's! Um, we only had like 10 no's and the rest yes's!! ah! we ended up being over what we could afford but it all works out

Good luck!

alli3131 Posted: Sep 28, 2009 03:32 PM

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DOnt freak out. I did the same thing cause we were getting all yes's and ended up just above my min.

I invited 181 and ended up with 132

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Sep 28, 2009 04:23 PM

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i had a ton of yesses and thought i'd never get no's. I got a ton of no's in the middle of everything. So dont worry.

rebekahlw164 Posted: Sep 28, 2009 04:24 PM

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I'm sure many of the no's will wait till the last minute. Also, you have all the single people waiting to see if they find a date. A lot of our no's were just people who didn't bring a date so it was 1 instead of 2 in our count.

gina409 Posted: Sep 28, 2009 04:53 PM

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dont stress yet...the yes always come in before the no's

Anthonysgirl Posted: Sep 28, 2009 08:45 PM

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Thanks girls...you're all making me feel a lot better. I'll keep you all posted! yay

whtevjenny Posted: Sep 28, 2009 09:32 PM

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yes, I've been having this convo with a ton of people - the no's generally come later, because people aren't totally sure, and then they finally send it in. (hopefully by the RSVP date, but c'mon that would be asking a lot!)