I'm getting married at the end Feb.. When should FH and I look for an apt?
WinterBride2005
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I'm getting married at the end Feb.. When should FH and I look for an apt?
Since we are getting married near the holidays, we are thinking that if we wait too close to our wedding date, we may have a hard time finding something. What do you guys think?
Pookiesangel
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Well it depends on if you want to live together before you get married.
FH & I are planning on moving sometime in the next three or four months, and we are getting married next may, I figure by then we will have everything in place and painted, and out of the way before March which will keep the moving/settling in thing from interfering with the wedding things :)
ETA: I would suggest 3 to 4 months before the wedding, just in case it does take longer to find a place, and it will give you time to set some things up before the last min running around for the wedding
WinterBride2005
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Thanks. We are not going to be moving in together before the wedding.
AtticaQT
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I think looking two months before the wedding gives plenty of time - there are so many apartments available right now - where are you looking to live?
marymoon
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I would start looking now, just in terms of looking at neighborhoods and thinking about what kind of apartment you want..and then start looking 3-4 months before. Why? The holidays and wedding planning are going to be totally hectic and it may take awhile to find a place you love. Can one of you move into the apartment if you find one? We found an apartment we like and FH is moving into it for 2 years actually before the wedding b/c he wanted to get his own place anyway. But I mean, a matter of 1-3 months (if you find a place early in your search_ might be helpful b/c u can start to decorate and figure everything out, not that you're rushed to start moving in and everything. You can start moving things before the wedding so when you come bakc form HM, most things are settled!
Jax430
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FH and I are getting married June 27th. We signed a May 15th lease for an apartment a few weeks ago. We started looking casually in January, more really to narrow down the neighborhoods and see what things go for. However, we were looking in Queens, and most places aren't showing apartments for rent until a month or two before the lease begins. We figured a May 15th lease gives us time to get stuff moved in and set up, so that we have some kind of order when we get back from our HM.
eogara
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My friend just moved in right at the end of February. There are a ton of apartments available at that time and also you can get great deals because hardly anyone is moving. Depending on where you're looking, I'd say 2 months before. If you have a specific building in mind, call the management company 4 months before you actually want to be in and explain you want to move on X date, will they have open apartments. That's around the time they send out renewal leases so they may already know if someone's moving out.
Good luck!
WinterBride2005
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Posted by marymoon
I would start looking now, just in terms of looking at neighborhoods and thinking about what kind of apartment you want..and then start looking 3-4 months before. Why? The holidays and wedding planning are going to be totally hectic and it may take awhile to find a place you love. Can one of you move into the apartment if you find one? We found an apartment we like and FH is moving into it for 2 years actually before the wedding b/c he wanted to get his own place anyway. But I mean, a matter of 1-3 months (if you find a place early in your search_ might be helpful b/c u can start to decorate and figure everything out, not that you're rushed to start moving in and everything. You can start moving things before the wedding so when you come bakc form HM, most things are settled!
We already know the area we want to live in.. We both live at home and neither one of us plans on moving out before we get married. I am worried that it will be hard to find an apt. around that time.. holidays.. winter. We don't want to live in an apt. building either. Wish us luck!!
Thanks!!
Bebalina
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Start looking now....takes a while to set everything up.
If the two of you don't want to live together yet, ur FH can always live there alone temporarily, and then carry you in the night you come in ....
jessnyc711
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Well you could start thinking/searching/newspapers at different prices and neighborhoods now and maybe go to some open houses to visually see what you get for what price etc. Since you both have the luxury of still living at home with family, there isn't a rush or time restriction to move out. Which is a major plus. are you both looking to buy or rent, that is a major factor. Buying I would look around get an idea of location and prices, but then not seriously look until after the wedding, if you end up seeing something you both love before the wedding you will have to act on it right away, there is the stress of moving stuff, closing contract and all of that which you don't want to have in addition to the last month wedding details. Renting, is totally different, it may take you one month or longer to find something that you Both are happy with, I would wait until after the wedding to worry about moving, you can look here and there for a location and to pin point the specific needs in a home, but you just never know, when you get lucky and see a great place, you have to grab it up and it doesn't always work out with timing.
nylisa
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We are getting married in Sept and we found our apartment in April. Since we are not going to be living in it, this extra time is good for us to paint, clean and make it our home.