I'm getting real annoyed at one of my bm!!!

First this bm is my sister She got married last yr. With 5 weeks before the wedding, she still hasn't gone for her fitting. My other sister keeps tell her she needs to go. Her answer is I will. This sat is my bachelorette party in the city. We're going to awesome 80's prom. One SUnday, I found out that she's doing a candle party in the afternoon...the day of the bachelorette party. Tonight I ask her what time is her party, she tells me 3!!! I was ready to scream. I e-mailed my other sister. SHe'll give it to her. I just feel she doesn't care about this wedding! We went all the way out to NJ for the fittings. Does anyone want to replace her as a sister

Sorry for the long vent

UGH! that is SO frustrating!!!!!

my advice... just leave it alone. I had to finally let go and stop nagging my 1 sister who's a royal pain in the ARSE!

she's the one who will feel like crap if she messes up your b-party.

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Posted by dleeny

UGH! that is SO frustrating!!!!!

my advice... just leave it alone. I had to finally let go and stop nagging my 1 sister who's a royal pain in the ARSE!

she's the one who will feel like crap if she messes up your b-party.

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the good sister is trying to make me feel better. she says people will say what a beautiful bride i am. they'll also say what a beautiful bridesmaid that i have and laugh at the other sister when her dress doesnht fit right

I'm sorry

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Posted by Happybride2005

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Posted by dleeny

UGH! that is SO frustrating!!!!!

my advice... just leave it alone. I had to finally let go and stop nagging my 1 sister who's a royal pain in the ARSE!

she's the one who will feel like crap if she messes up your b-party.

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the good sister is trying to make me feel better. she says people will say what a beautiful bride i am. they'll also say what a beautiful bridesmaid that i have and laugh at the other sister when her dress doesnht fit right

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your 'good' sister is absolutely right! it's on her, not you!

What size is the dress? I could be on standby. I have nothing to do on your wedding date

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Posted by Goldi1021

What size is the dress? I could be on standby. I have nothing to do on your wedding date

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that's sweet of u it will be 2 big o9n u. its a 24

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Posted by Goldi1021

Sorry I can't help. I meant well!

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u could beat her up

Im sorry gail

i know you're more upset about the lack of caring than the dress part, but as far as the dress goes, dont let it stress you out. I had to have my BM dress completely altered for Sue's wedding... i went in on a friday, and it was ready for me on Tuesday (just 4 days later).. and i had Alot done to it... it'll all work out.

I'm sorry Gail It stinks that it is your sister-I'm sure everything will work out ok in the end

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Posted by neeniebean86

Im sorry gail

i know you're more upset about the lack of caring than the dress part, but as far as the dress goes, dont let it stress you out. I had to have my BM dress completely altered for Sue's wedding... i went in on a friday, and it was ready for me on Tuesday (just 4 days later).. and i had Alot done to it... it'll all work out.

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i think u hit it on the head...the lack of caring. sometime i feel i'm 2 nice to people. if she screws this up for me, i don't think i will forgive her. since i was there for her, i thought i would get it back in returned.

thanks girls

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Posted by Happybride2005
i think u hit it on the head...the lack of caring. sometime i feel i'm 2 nice to people. if she screws this up for me, i don't think i will forgive her. since i was there for her, i thought i would get it back in returned.

thanks girls

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GRRRRRR.... I'm sorry she's frustrating you!! I feel your pain though!
Here's some hugs to get you through!

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Posted by littlebookworm4

I tell ya - it's even worse when it's a sibling!! you'd think they'd be estatic!!

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and THIS is one of the reasons why I chose not to include my sisters OR FH's sisters in my BP. Family drama suc*s.