I'm going to cry..

CTarantino Posted: Feb 18, 2006 03:40 PM

I'm going to cry..

I was meeting with my florist today and went over the centerpieces. They are 3 cylindars with rose petals on the table, water, clear stones on the bottom with a floating candle on top....I speak to my brother, in Florida, who is planning his wedding and his fiancee is doing almost the same thing...WHAT are the chances???
They are doing one cylindar with the rocks, water, floating candle. NOW WHAT?? I am so upset and want to just cry cause it took me forever to find something I liked. MY WEDDING IS IN 69 days. I don't have any time now. They bought their supplies for their wedding which is in November.
I am so upset I don't know what to do now. Any thoughts?? I am really just venting instead of crying. Thanks for listening

SweetCin704 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 03:50 PM

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I would just go ahead as scheduled...they aren't the exact same thing & everything has been decided and the people that go to both weddings may not even realize. What was your bro/SIL's feelings about it?

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 03:53 PM

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Posted by SweetCin704

I would just go ahead as scheduled...they aren't the exact same thing & everything has been decided and the people that go to both weddings may not even realize. What was your bro/SIL's feelings about it?

I agree

October Bliss Posted: Feb 18, 2006 04:01 PM

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I would go ahead as planned. If anyone notices, it will look like bro & FSIL copied you - not the other way around.

Jen2999 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 04:02 PM

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I would leave it as well.. your wedding is first and there's is a WHILE away!

xcalystax Posted: Feb 18, 2006 05:32 PM

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DO NOT change your centerpiece!!!! If it was difficult to find something you loved and this is is then keep it. If they have an issue with it then they have enough time to change it considering their wedding is over 9 months aways!!

kittythestray Posted: Feb 18, 2006 05:59 PM

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I would def. keep what you planned!

thefirstlady Posted: Feb 18, 2006 06:06 PM

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Don't cry!!! Trust me, no one remembers centerpieces, and especially not after that much time! Besides, your wedding is first, and that'll look like his fiancee copied you!!

DanaMZ Posted: Feb 18, 2006 06:11 PM

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I would leave it. Your's sounds nicer anyway.

DCSAAB06 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 06:21 PM

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Girl dont worry about it!! Just go with what you have and everything will be different that people wont notice it....except that two girls have some great taste

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 06:43 PM

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Its sounds horrible but, the bride is the only one that notices these small things. No one at your wedding will remember the centerpieces exactly. Just keep what you decided on, It will be fine!

dbleplay17 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 07:22 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

I would leave it as well.. your wedding is first and there's is a WHILE away!

agreed!

DUCKS2001 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 11:13 PM

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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT, YOUR WEDDING IS FIRST AND PEOPLE WILL THINK THAT THEY JUST LOVED YOURS SO MUCH THEY DID SOMETHING LIKE IT ALSO.. GO AHEAD WITH YOUR PLANS.... REMEMBER YOUR WEDDING IS FIRST , AND IF YOU LOVE IT STICK WITH IT.

gina674 Posted: Feb 18, 2006 11:30 PM

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I totally agree with the other girls... Don't change a thing, People aren't going to remember to a 'T' what you had 7 months ago!!! Keep what you have, you worked hard to figure out what you wanted....

JPC1125 Posted: Feb 19, 2006 10:16 AM

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youre going first so if anything, they will look like they copied you.

Believe me, nobody really pays much attention to the cp's anyway- esp if youre concerned about them remembering yours

TheBigDay Posted: Feb 19, 2006 10:27 AM

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your wedding is first so i wouldnt worry about it...!!!

MrsD06 Posted: Feb 19, 2006 10:30 AM

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don't change it!! People won't remember and it just happened that way..it's nobodies fault. And it sounds beautiful, btw!!

gigles319 Posted: Feb 19, 2006 10:33 AM

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keep your idea

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Feb 19, 2006 11:10 AM

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Its your wedding - not anyone elses - nones gonna notice - dont sweat this, there are so many things in life to get upset about - this is a happy time! Go for what you want!