Im gonna Kill FH!!!!!

dazies1011 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 12:55 PM

Im gonna Kill FH!!!!!

He wants to add 12 more people to the list!!! Now I have to print out more invitations and figure that out.. they were done by my JRBM's mom. Plus one of the guys he wants there he hasnt talked in over a year and this guy never returns his calls. He says because he is hurt and not working but, if you are home doing nothing he can pick up a phone. Plus he wants to invite him with a guest so looks like we'll be swallowing 2 plates on him. I know that is wrong but, he isnt a close friend anymore so it pi$$es me off even more.
Here we WERE cutting down the list..... I cant stand that he keeps chaning his mind. I told him if they arent married no guest, I cut down my list that way and he'll have to do it too.
OK VENT OVER

allegracristina Posted: Apr 18, 2009 12:57 PM

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gina409 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 01:13 PM

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im so drading thi..i nowfh is going to do thias to me and i will be forced to kick hm in the balls

coldasice217 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 01:14 PM

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Ugh that's so frustrating!!!

9509Bride Posted: Apr 18, 2009 01:51 PM

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what the... 12 more people? I am Sorry! This has to be annoying!

I mean a guy who he hasnt spoken to, who doesnt return his calls AND who is out of work PLUS a guest??? I'd have to put my foot down on that one. If he is out of work can he even afford a gift? ( not that an invite is contingent on a gift) but come on!!!!!!!!!!!!

jeswedding Posted: Apr 18, 2009 02:37 PM

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i also agree- not married, engaged or living together- no date... but now we have changed it for some and not others- so our rule has gone to poo....

i think the list may have been the worst part so far

dazies1011 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 03:49 PM

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Posted by 9509Bride

what the... 12 more people? I am Sorry! This has to be annoying!

I mean a guy who he hasnt spoken to, who doesnt return his calls AND who is out of work PLUS a guest??? I'd have to put my foot down on that one. If he is out of work can he even afford a gift? ( not that an invite is contingent on a gift) but come on!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thats how I feel.

RitasEngaged Posted: Apr 18, 2009 04:42 PM

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I feel your pain - every other day fh adds someone to the list

shell1879 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 04:53 PM

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ugh my FH did the same thing to me the other day.... some guy that he hasn't spokent to in years and just happen to find him on facebook

dazies1011 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 05:31 PM

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Posted by shell1879

ugh my FH did the same thing to me the other day.... some guy that he hasn't spokent to in years and just happen to find him on facebook

Oh yes he has a few of those also

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 05:57 PM

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Posted by dazies1011
I told him if they arent married no guest, I cut down my list that way and he'll have to do it too.
OK VENT OVER

That's hard because theoretically then you wouldnt be invited to any weddings prior to your own with Ant as your guest since you're not married yet...think about it that way.

I understand your frustration but I think adults should get an 'and guest.'

dazies1011 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 06:37 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Posted by dazies1011
I told him if they arent married no guest, I cut down my list that way and he'll have to do it too.
OK VENT OVER

That's hard because theoretically then you wouldnt be invited to any weddings prior to your own with Ant as your guest since you're not married yet...think about it that way.

I understand your frustration but I think adults should get an 'and guest.'

Sorry but, thats what we have to do. In order to have the people we really want there, like you and Mike, we had to invite single people with no guest. If they arent with someone, living ,married or serious they got invited without guest. They will know alot of people there, they wont be alone and not know anyone but, Id rather it not have just someone come cause they were invited with guest then to cut people off my list that we really want there.
Its hard we have to stick with the budget since we are doing it ourselves.
There is only a hand full of them so I dont feel too bad and yes I have been in their shoes but, not as a single person. I was in a realtionship and invited without guest.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 06:59 PM

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Posted by dazies1011

Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Posted by dazies1011
I told him if they arent married no guest, I cut down my list that way and he'll have to do it too.
OK VENT OVER

That's hard because theoretically then you wouldnt be invited to any weddings prior to your own with Ant as your guest since you're not married yet...think about it that way.

I understand your frustration but I think adults should get an 'and guest.'
Sorry but, thats what we have to do. In order to have the people we really want there, like you and Mike, we had to invite single people with no guest. If they arent with someone, living ,married or serious they got invited without guest. They will know alot of people there, they wont be alone and not know anyone but, Id rather it not have just someone come cause they were invited with guest then to cut people off my list that we really want there.
Its hard we have to stick with the budget since we are doing it ourselves.
There is only a hand full of them so I dont feel too bad and yes I have been in their shoes but, not as a single person. I was in a realtionship and invited without guest.

Oh trust me I know about sticking to the budget! Just when you said that if you're not married you don't get invited with a guest I thought you meant EVERYONE. If they don't have a girlfriend that you know and like, I don't blame you for inviting them without a guest. Heck, maybe then they won't come at all and save you more money!

dazies1011 Posted: Apr 18, 2009 09:43 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Posted by dazies1011

Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Posted by dazies1011
I told him if they arent married no guest, I cut down my list that way and he'll have to do it too.
OK VENT OVER

That's hard because theoretically then you wouldnt be invited to any weddings prior to your own with Ant as your guest since you're not married yet...think about it that way.

I understand your frustration but I think adults should get an 'and guest.'
Sorry but, thats what we have to do. In order to have the people we really want there, like you and Mike, we had to invite single people with no guest. If they arent with someone, living ,married or serious they got invited without guest. They will know alot of people there, they wont be alone and not know anyone but, Id rather it not have just someone come cause they were invited with guest then to cut people off my list that we really want there.
Its hard we have to stick with the budget since we are doing it ourselves.
There is only a hand full of them so I dont feel too bad and yes I have been in their shoes but, not as a single person. I was in a realtionship and invited without guest.

Oh trust me I know about sticking to the budget! Just when you said that if you're not married you don't get invited with a guest I thought you meant EVERYONE. If they don't have a girlfriend that you know and like, I don't blame you for inviting them without a guest. Heck, maybe then they won't come at all and save you more money!

Sorry I should have said married, etc...but, if they do have someone they are getting invited with guest, just if they are single then no. I still hope they come even without me inviting them without a guest but, we just had to cut alittle where we could.