Im gonna scream!!!!!!!!1

Take a deep breath.......then hand it to FH and say hear, your turn!

Don't worry it will work out. Remember you don't have to have the same amount of people at every table. We had one table of 6, a few of 8, some 9 and a few 10.

Scream and cry...but don't tear it up....yet!
Take a deep breathe and then you can walk us through it! I did a mock one..and realized........I don't give a rats hiney if you don't like who you are sitting next to. Like it or leave it!!!!!!!
If that isn't your attitude.......Then just talk it out to us...cause if you tear it up...it will be that version you end up going with!!!

Take a deep breath and dont rip it up! Hand it to Fh and tell him...its all yours!

All kidding aside, Dont let it stress you out. I do understand what you are going through. I have an entire bridal party of people who are fighting with each other and who cant get along or sit together. I have decided...its one of those things that I care about but will not let it stress me. After all, its only for a small amount of time, that people will be sitting down- the rest of the tme they will be PARTYING!!!

lol FH is sleeping and hasnt helped with a darn thing this whole wedding planning process......and today of all days....i got my period and all the stress is hitting me today...ive been soooo clam and today i feel like im gonna loose it



But my mom and i finished the chart and i said anyone else who we add gets put with whoever!


I said how long are they sitting htere?! they will all get up and move around anyway! its just to eat!

Its like a hotel....your just there to sleep! sure its nice if the bed is comfy but oh well if it isnt!

something my mom always does is to print out your list, cut everyone up into slips of paper, and then tape together the people who have to be together no matter what. then you can try to move them into groupings. you know you wont forget anyone or do duplicates, and clump groups together to build up.

i did our friends and cousins tables, and my mom is putting together the tables for family friends, adult family, etc since she knows better than me.

good luck

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Posted by bluegreen08

something my mom always does is to print out your list, cut everyone up into slips of paper, and then tape together the people who have to be together no matter what. then you can try to move them into groupings. you know you wont forget anyone or do duplicates, and clump groups together to build up.

i did our friends and cousins tables, and my mom is putting together the tables for family friends, adult family, etc since she knows better than me.

good luck

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Great idea!

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Posted by Jamnike

lol FH is sleeping and hasnt helped with a darn thing this whole wedding planning process......and today of all days....i got my period and all the stress is hitting me today...ive been soooo clam and today i feel like im gonna loose it



But my mom and i finished the chart and i said anyone else who we add gets put with whoever!


I said how long are they sitting htere?! they will all get up and move around anyway! its just to eat!

Its like a hotel....your just there to sleep! sure its nice if the bed is comfy but oh well if it isnt!

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I am sorry that FH hasnt been helpful. I am glad that you got it done and now its one more thing off the list.

On the bright side..you got your friend now and not for the wedding or HM !

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Posted by DCLM726

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Posted by Jamnike

lol FH is sleeping and hasnt helped with a darn thing this whole wedding planning process......and today of all days....i got my period and all the stress is hitting me today...ive been soooo clam and today i feel like im gonna loose it



But my mom and i finished the chart and i said anyone else who we add gets put with whoever!


I said how long are they sitting htere?! they will all get up and move around anyway! its just to eat!

Its like a hotel....your just there to sleep! sure its nice if the bed is comfy but oh well if it isnt!

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I am sorry that FH hasnt been helpful. I am glad that you got it done and now its one more thing off the list.

On the bright side..you got your friend now and not for the wedding or HM !

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Exactly!! thats how we picked the wedding date LMAO! and it was a day late so i was yelling at my body this morning and i was like you better come today or im gonna beat it out or SOMETHING!!!! i called FH and i was like YEY!!!! he was like why are you happy about that!

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Posted by DCLM726

thats kinda funny! I was so worried that I was gonna be late and get it next week but it came when it was suppose to...thank god!

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YEY! lol now that its here it needs to leave HA

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Posted by Jamnike

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Posted by DCLM726

thats kinda funny! I was so worried that I was gonna be late and get it next week but it came when it was suppose to...thank god!

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YEY! lol now that its here it needs to leave HA

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I am with you on that. Its impeding on my beach time!

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Posted by bluegreen08

something my mom always does is to print out your list, cut everyone up into slips of paper, and then tape together the people who have to be together no matter what. then you can try to move them into groupings. you know you wont forget anyone or do duplicates, and clump groups together to build up.

i did our friends and cousins tables, and my mom is putting together the tables for family friends, adult family, etc since she knows better than me.

good luck

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That is a great idea. I already have the names cut up into small pieces, however, I didn't think to tape the people that absolutely have to be together. Very very clever you are.

step away from the chart a bit and then come back to it.

oh no!! walk away from it for a few hours! let your head clear!!!! good luck!