i'm gonna vomit...

1. we're closing on our house tomorrow
2. it's the last few weeks of school and i have 21304823 papers to write
3. i need to finish the pocketfolds tonight/tomorrow night so i can overnight them to the girl who is going to print my invites and put everything together for me bc i have no time
4. To Do List

To Do List


To Do List

Ceremony
Determine Readings
Acquire Unity Candle
Plan ceremony: music selections, readings, etc
Get Marriage License
Purchase or make ceremony programs
Make Final appointment with Officiant
Pick family member/friend to hand out programs at ceremony
Create a “wedding box” to gather your ceremony accessories (marriage license,
candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport.

Reception
Make Hall payments (Deposit, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, Final)
Select and order wedding cake
Write out place cards
Purchase cake topper
Establish seating arrangements
Order Favors/Donation
Attend tasting
Finalize Menu
Menus for reception
Finalize timeline and details with Reception Hall
Book Limos
Finalize timeline, details, and payment with Limo’s
Plan reception: first dance song selection, parent dances, Grand Entrances, Cake cutting, Boquet Finalize details and payment with DJ
Have Sample Centerpieces made
Finalize all details and payments with Florist
Plan back up locations for photo sessions in case of rain
Must-Take photo list
Finalize all details and payments with Photographer

Rehearsal Dinner
Choose & Purchase parents gifts
Book rehearsal dinner site
Pay rehearsal dinner site

General/Other
Bathroom Baskets
OOT Bags
Mail out invitations
Call guests who have not RSVP'd
Book Night of hotel room
Pay for night of hotel room
Purchase Guestbook for reception
Purchase or make Card box
Prepare day-of emergency kit
Set aside time to write thank you notes for shower gifts
Make sure you have something old, new, blue, and a six pence in your shoe
Prepare Day-of Timeline and give a copy to each vendor along with copies of must-take photo lists, etc
Arrange tips for all Vendors (Photo, DJ, Video, Matre’d, Bridal Attendance, Hair, Make-up)
Pick family member to hand out tips
Place tips for each vendor in envelopes
Prepare a “reception box” for accessories such as guest books, toasting flutes, cake toppers, family photos, Card box etc., and assign someone to transport
Confirm all final payments, schedule, pick up times, head count, etc with all vendors

Honeymoon
Shop for Honeymoon
Pack for Honeymoon
Confirm HM reservations and travel arrangements
Arrange transportation to the airport
Arrange transportation back from the airport after HM

Bridal Attire
Order tuxes
Attend all fittings
Purchase Veil
Break in wedding day shoes
Purchase undergarments, stockings
Pick out and purchase day of jewelry
Order wedding rings
Pick up wedding rings


how did i get so behind?

Hey sweetie....ok def take a step back, and dont look at the whole list. Just pick a few things to focus on & put the rest of list away until you finish the immediate things on your list. EVERYTHING WILL GET DONE!!!! I promise you!
Know that we are here for you & anything you need!!!

xoxoxox

Congrats on closing!!

i haven't done 97% of the things on your list and my wedding is a month before yours, so no worries.

First...BREATHE!!!!
second just do one thing at a time.... it will all get done(the important things will anyway..) delegate helpers when you can.... Dont stress to much this is one of the best times in your life(being engaged and planning your big day) dont let the stress ruin it for you!!! ASK FOR HELP!!

congratulations on closing!!!!!!!

breath... and take one thing at a time :) everything will work out

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Posted by AgaBride062610

congratulations on closing!!!!!!!

breath... and take one thing at a time :) everything will work out

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'11er crashing. ITA! Think about the fact that you have a to-do list and you're THAT organized. Sometimes when I look at my to-do list, I put target dates next to things to make sure i get something done by a certain time. one thing at a time!