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I'M HERE AND HOW I SURVIVED THE BLACKOUT!!

bearsbabe_113 Posted:

I'M HERE AND HOW I SURVIVED THE BLACKOUT!!

First I'd like to THANK MICHELLE W FOR COMING TO MY RESCUE!!!! I'm going to start by saying I am not one to panic in these kinds of situations, but a couple of people I work with didn't want me to leave and not for nothing but the last place I wanted to be was in this building up on the 49th floor w/phones that were working sometimes and being incommunicado w/the world!!!! I wanted to get the heLL out of dodge and that I did.

Michelle, bless her heart, had Security call me and they were going to come up and get me by the freight elevator, but then she came running upstairs to me -- the poor thing climbed up 4 flights of stairs to tell me this -- because the freight was working, so me and my friend Lisa walked down to her floor to see what was going on. When we found out that the elevator wasn't going to be up for awhile, I wanted to leave and I wanted Michelle to come with me because I was worried about her, but she couldn't leave her co-worker who broke her foot. So, Lisa made sure I had cold compresses on my neck and plenty of water and off we went to the stairwell.

It took us about a half-hour or so to walk down the stairs and I only stopped once to go to the bathroom (not to mention the 5 times I went before we started out) before we got out of the building. Once I got out on the street, my legs started shaking, but I had to keep walking, so I just kept going. Lisa and I were going to Astoria and Joe was going to meet us over the 59th Street Bridge.

Now, I did this walk on 9/11 and granted, being 9 months preggo isn't the best of circumstances, but had to do it. Of course I can't get through to anybody on my cell phone and nobody can get through to me, so all I kept seeing was how many voicemail messages I was getting, thinking they are all from my nervous wreck of a husband. But they weren't from him, they were from his grandmother because he was calling on her on a pay phone telling her to try me and letting me know where he was!

I work on 44th & Broadway, so it took us about an hour to get to the bridge -- stopping in one building that had a/c to cool down and then in a hotel to go to the bathroom (where I stole/borrowed a towel and wet in to put around my neck). All the while Lisa is asking me if I want to stop and I'm like 'no, let's keep going'. We stopped again right before the bridge and then started the walk across. I knew it was a long walk -- took us about an hour. We stopped a few times, but I found once I stopped it was worse. After we finally get off the bridge, it was a zoo in Queens Plaza and I couldn't find Joe, so we started walking down to where I knew he was coming from. I asked some man if I could sit on the empty chair next to him and he looked at me as if I was asking for his blood! I sat for awhile and kept trying to get through to Joe, but couldn't. I happened to look to my left and there 2 blocks down was the distinctive walk of my husband walking up towards me!!!

I thought he would be a nervous wreck, but he was totally fine (until we got home, then he FREAKED out). He drove Lisa to her in-laws and we went by my parents to get my car (I had a sonogram at the hospital the next day) and see how they were doing, plus I had to pee!

I know my family was half frantic -- my MIL kept calling my sister (in Jersey, who never lost power) to find out where I was. I will have some stories to tell this little Bear Cub when he/she comes out!!!

I was just thankful it wasn't one of those days where I left work early, because I would have most definitely been stuck on a train underground!!!!

Then I was a nervous wreck about Michelle and finally got through to Steven late that night to find out she stayed overnight at work, then she called me on Friday to let me know she was fine!

Friday I was scheduled for a sonogram, but the hospital cancelled it and I was a bit nervous because the baby wasn't moving around like it normally did (poor thing was exhausted ), so I explained the situation and they had me call my dr, who told me to relax and take it easy and just go in on Monday. But then the hospital called me back and told me to come right away, they had one machine up.

Thank God, Bear Cub is just fine -- I got a good look at his/her chubby face and I started crying because I think it FINALLY hit me what the heck I had gone through! And the non-stress test was good too. I now have to go to the hospital twice a week for that because I'm full term and for a sono once a week and the dr once a week!!

This is my last week of work and I've only been able to get on my computer now! Whew, aren't you glad you asked where I was??

So Jennbaby, no I didn't get a bus!! I WALKED!!! I was laughing when I read in the paper about some 5 month pregnant woman who was carried down 27 flights -- HELLO, she has nothing on me!!!

And to top it off, after all this, I had Lamaze this weekend, so I REALLY COULDN'T GET OFF THE FLOOR!!!!! I could hardly walk all weekend!!!
anna Posted:

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WOW Yet another story for the baby, like you said !

Youre ONE little trooper !!!!! You had so many nice people around you to make sure you were hydrated and feeling well. (especially that Michelle! and of course SuperJoe!)

Youre the best, mommy!! Motherhood will be a sinch for you !!!

Enjoy your time off before the baby !
dawnie Posted:

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I am so sorry you had to go through this. The whole time I was walking on that bridge I was thinking of all the pregnant ladies and hoping they were OK. I am glad you and the baby are OK.
JennRenee Posted:

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Oh my god Deb! I am so impressed by you!!! I am SO sorry that you had to do ALL of that walking in the heat, but I am even more amazed and impressed that YOU DID IT!!!

In the end, I bet all of that walking is going to help with your stamina during delivery.

jenny11.9 Posted:

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SO glad you are ok! I was thinking of you! After all...Sept. 8th isn't very far away!!!
bearsbabe_113 Posted:

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Thanks guys!!! It was an adventure, I tell ya!!! I'm thinking if I can do that, I can handle this thing called labor!!!

Dawnie, did you see me?? The waddling preggo in lime green and blue??? LOL

I'm thankful for Michelle looking out for me when she needed to be looked for as well, and my friend Lisa, who I've known since our LaGuli girl days and who got me my job here 15 years ago!! She was a bit nervous for me, I think I was the only one NOT nervous for me!!!

But that midnight shower by candlelight was the best thing I ever had!!!!!! If only I had more food, I would've been better!!!

I have to tell you all my Lamaze story next....
LizD Posted:

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I am so glad that you are o.k.

Michelle gets special hugs for being such a great friend

I def admire you for the walk you took and for keeping your calm
dawnie Posted:

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No..I didn't see you but I can't imagine what you were going through. I thought I had it tough because I was wearing strappy sandals and got bleeding blisters.... I now know how lucky I was. I am so glad you are OK!
natasha Posted:

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Girl -- you will have some stories for that baby.

You are definitely a trooper.
yabbobay Posted:

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what a positive attitude!!!

I'm glad that things went as well as they could and everything is good on your end!!!
Diane Posted:

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WOW...You are amazing Deb. Glad you and the little one made it through.
Michelle...You deserve an award
Lisa Rose Posted:

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I am so glad to hear that you are ok!!

I was thinking about both you and Michelle all the time I was sitting outside my building in the heat waiting for my husband!!

Thank god this is your last week!!
shamma Posted:

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What a story and only one you could tell. I am so happy you are fine. *wipes brow*
shamma Posted:

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PS glad Michelle is ok too
applesfla Posted:

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You really are amazing! Labor is going to be a snap with all you've been through. I am so glad to hear that you and the little cub are ok. He/she will be here before you know it.

There's a lamaze story too.....geez
MichelleW Posted:

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Deb,

You are so welcome

I had wanted to make sure Security knew about you becuase I thought at your stage it would be much easier on you and the cub to get a lift to the lobby but the STUPID backup generator failed


This building S U C K S!!!!
JennRenee Posted:

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Michelle
You are AWESOME!
Cira Posted:

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Deb ... I wondered about you and I'm so glad that you and Bear Cub are perfectly fine!!! Michelle is a great friend!!!
michele31 Posted:

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I was soooo thankful that I was not in NYC that day. I am really glad that you and Michelle are okay. That is one long, long, long walk. But you are right. If you can handle that, labor will be nothing to you!

Shamee Posted:

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I'm so glad that the four of you made it out okay! Deb, you are superwoman, I swear!! You go with your bad self!

Michelle is an excellent friend - I'm proud to consider her one of mine

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