make it stopppppp My coworker and fellow bride and I are very close- in fact we have both spoken about pulling each other into each other's bp's. The only reason we haven't is because we're both going nuts with our own weddings.
She did however tell me to wear a black dress and jump in her pictures.
Her shower was amazing but I got the feeling (and have been told that her MOH) is jealous of me because we're newer friends.
Now- last week I texted said MOH to find out when the bachelorette party is and offer help/ money- I was told it's the weekend before the wedding.
I went on FB this morning to see pictures of my coworkers bachelorette that I wasn't invited to.
I don't want to upset the bride but this is a complete slap in the face. We're really good friends. I spent half my day crying.
Also- the other two bridesmaids weren't there either- this is crazy no???
meow.
jovigirl414
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Wow ... Meow is right!
You should comment on the pictures 'wow, looks like a great time, wish I could have been there ...' and when your friend asks why you weren't, then you can tell her the truth, because you were told the party was on a different day. There is nothing wrong with being honest - as long as you aren't super catty about it, you know?
I'm sorry you are going through this - you can come to MY B-party!!
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Aww TY so much
I just feel like it was SO selfish of her MOH to not include friends and EVEN the other BM's!
What the hell is that?
I have to go sit at work all day tomorrow with my friend and feel completely like ****.
I'm sure I'll hear some excuse- but then don't tell me the wrong date.
At her shower the MOH was writing the list of gifts and people down and wanted to go smoke a cigg.- she said can someone sit in for me while I go- I said, 'I will'
To that she responded, 'forget it I won't go'
I've met this girl like 4 times tops. What is her problem???
jovigirl414
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It definitely seems odd to leave out some of the BP ... and it seems even weirder that the MOH would leave the shower to smoke a cigarette during presents! I'm a smoker, and I think thats just plain rude!
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She did wind up going- when a suitable list writer *her friend* said she'd do it.
Unreal right?
I'm not catty AT ALL.
I honestly just wanted to help.
I'm feeling so hurt and left out. Especially cause I just offered help and money this past WEEK!
***???
Im getting Married
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Wow that is really crazy...I would wait for your friend to talk about her BP then say 'Oh wow I guess (insert MOH name) must have made a mistake when she told me it would be XX date'.
That really is catty of her though
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if you want to talk to her about it in some way, you can say, 'hey my schedule is getting crazy, when is your BP so i can make sure it's in my calendar?'
DreamyD
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Whatever I'm going to let it slide and not stress her out since her wedding is in two weeks- but I am extremely HURT!!!
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wow! i cant believe this MOH is being so immature!! Im sorry your so upset, that is awful what she did. I would say something to her if she asks you when you werent at the bachlorette party, and tell her the truth.
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Posted by Im getting Married
Wow that is really crazy...I would wait for your friend to talk about her BP then say 'Oh wow I guess (insert MOH name) must have made a mistake when she told me it would be XX date'.
That really is catty of her though
THIS!
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Posted by jovigirl414
Wow ... Meow is right!
You should comment on the pictures 'wow, looks like a great time, wish I could have been there ...' and when your friend asks why you weren't, then you can tell her the truth, because you were told the party was on a different day. There is nothing wrong with being honest - as long as you aren't super catty about it, you know?
I'm sorry you are going through this - you can come to MY B-party!!
ITA
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Wow. This may be a bit out there but maybe she has two separate parties planned? A friend of mine (bride) did that and was the one who created the guest list herself.
In any case, your coworker is truly lucky to have a friend like you, a fellow bride no less (!), who cares so much about being there for her!
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Nope that was it.
B party done- no Danielle there.
Bleh.
She feels bad (coworker.) and she's STILL hungover two days later so I'm trying really hard to act normal.
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WOW I would confornt the MOH and tell the bride ef that don't make me look like a bad person and then go out with her one night or go to ac for the night and have your own fun maybe the other two bm's would want to come?
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i'm so sorry that you even are going through this catty-ness from a jealous MOH. hoenstly, i would ask her how the party went when you see her and i really would tell her that you were told it was a different weekend. but i wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
