im moving

This sunday I'll be moving back to my grandma's house because things between me and fmil are so bad its not even funny. Since I lost my car, I won't be able to see FH. he works 6 days a week and works alot of hours. I seriously, just feel like jumping off a cliff right now

He should just move with you...is that even possible?

I'm sorry to hear this. I am sure you two will figure out how to see each other more.

how far away are you moving from him? is it feasible for you 2 to get your own place anytime soon... to give it a light at the end of the tunnel, so to speak? no matter what, just remember - where there's a will, there's a way. it'll all work out

So sorry to hear this...don't really know what to say..but here is a ...take care...

sorry to hear this. do your best to keep thepeace because it is your FHs mother. Maybe moving out will be the best thing for everyone and maybe he will see how much he misses you and how awful it was that his mom caused such tension you had to leave. Just remember to be the bigger person. It will all work out.

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Posted by XFINALLYX

seriously guys thank you for all of the support you have shown me for the past week with this horrible woman. my grandma lives in coram and fh lives in westbury. its like a 45 minute drive. we cant move into an apartment cause we're planning on moving to florida within 2 months or so.. and now i just overheard her talking to her brother about how much fh's other son and wife makes a year. what is her problem?? that is personal!! its no one's business. she is the most pushy person i know. everything we wanted for our engagement party. we didnt get! (like food wise, and stuff like that) she was cold and bossy for the whole party my whole family realized it. its just impossible for fh to see it. he thinks she means well but i dont. her toast was horrible. 'to my son' 5 minutes later and 'kim' and she knows i hate the name kim. i've been called kimmie my whole life. i found out fmil has done this to our fsil (fh's sil) when she was planning the wedding and now tells her how to raise her own daughter. i seriously wanna go downstairs and punch her in her face. nevermind just punching, i want to spit in her face and thats extremely degrading to me. so for me to want to do that, thats pretty bad. ugh i cant even think right now. all i've been doing is crying for like 3 hours straight

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Kimmie- get a grip! Take a breath! I was in the exact situation you are in. OK, as far as the moving- I had to move too bc my FMIL kicked me out of the house. I lived with a friend for a couple of months- I was lucky. I even got married out of her house. If you can try to find someone who can put you up for a little so that you don't have the rent expense. I told FH to stay at the house bc of expenses. I know that being apart right now is not the ideal situation to be in but it will do you good to be away from that woman. Trust me! It ***** that you have to be away from FH but absence makes the heart grow fonder. Sounds rediculous but when you haven't seen each other in a while it is going to make the times you do that much better. (Sex will probably be good too!)
Just thank God that you plan on moving to Fla. and she will be miles away. Get caller ID so that when she calls you don't answer the phone. Now...how to deal with this woman. Be nice. but seriously, be nice. Be polite. -No thank you. - Thank you for the suggestion. I will definitely take it into consideration/ I know it will eat you up inside to have to be nice to this f-ing B. But she sounds just like my FMIL did and when I did that she was shocked. By the way, I am refering to my ex-FMIL. Who wore white to my wedding bc we fought over the dress. I saw her, walked up to her, and said, 'you look absolutely beautiful.' In front of her mother and a whole lot of other people. She was dumbfounded. This was 10 years ago and I did not get divorced bc of her. There were other issues. And yes, we almost had a fistfight and all it did was make me look disrespectful bc she was 'his mother'. I hope that some of this helps you. But never and I mean NEVER!!!! lose your cool in front of that woman. You will just give her more ammo. Remember- breath, be nice, be polite, smile and then go home and bash your pillow in!!!! FM me if you need to talk! Nic

OMG-you just got engaged! Think of all the great things you have to look forward to! This might even improve your relationship with her, who knows. Good luck...

God never gives us more than we can handle. I hope things work out and please don't let your FMIL dictate how you are going to live your life.

In the end, everything will out for you!!! Have faith!!!

Frm what it sounds like, its all for the best!