IM NERVOUS

I have 24 days and i cant sleep, at all my fiance and i are so stessed we are doing this wedding all on our own and the stress has been bad lately, please tell me it goes away after the wedding, im so scared right now, i dont have a mom so there is no one i can really turn to besides my FH , who is great but at this time its like we are crazed with stress, please tell me this is normal>>>>

You'll be fine!!!!!!! I have a few more days than you, but I can relate. There is a bit of stress going on now, less time to get things done in, but in the end, you will be marrying your best friend. The day after, you can relax about everything - all the details will be over and you will be married to the love of your life!!!!!!!!!

OMG, I was so stressed before the wedding. As DH always says, I drove myself and everyone around me absolutely crazy! You will feel so much more relaxed after the wedding. It will be like a huge weight lifted. It was about a month until the wedding when I started getting a little nutty with the details! I think it's pretty normal to feel stressed and totally overwhelmed. Believe me, you'll have a wonderful day, take your well-deserved honeymoon, and will feel 100% better when you return!

It is VERY normal!! Especially when you and your FH are paying for it all on your own. FH and I are getting help from my parents and we are STILL super stressed. I'm sure it will all get better after the wedding because the money will go IN the account instead of OUT of the account. Just try to keep your head up and talk to US when you need someone!!!

THANK YOU

It's very normal! I've been going through bouts of the same thing because we're also doing everything on our own and it can be extremely overwhelming at times. Like you, I don't have my Mom anymore either but I do have some great friends and FH who help immensly. You can't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. We're all here for you! When you start getting stressed, take a few deep breaths and think of something that calms you down. Usually visualizing a beach somewhere works for me but anything that takes your mind off of the wedding will help.

It is very normal to be nervous, but don't worry you will be fine! Everything will be ok after the wedding!!! It is a very exciting time, emotional time, and scary time all at once, so don't be upset that you are nervous. Just try to calm down and realize that this is going to be the happiest day of your life!

I dont know what to say but i will offer a few hugs for you,

completely normal. i went through this every day for about a month. DH and i fought so much i thought we were going to kill each other, but u know what it was all worth it. Our wedding was the best day ever.

You will be fine hon! Just take a deep breath- and the day before the wedding, book a couples massage for the two of you, you'll be glad you did!

DH and I were extremely stressed right before the wedding...it's completely normal.....The minute we finished the ceremony we felt so much better, relieved like a huge weight was lifted. Try to relax...you will be fine!!!

Thank you guys i feel so much better that im not the only one who is going or went through this....