I'm over it . . . .vent

I am sooo over this wedding thing. It was fun, now it is just stressful. I am getting married November 14th and I still need to get my invitations in the mail, get a veil, a slip, schedule food tasting/cake tasting, print menus, seating chart, wrap my favors, do my oot boxes, schedule my fittings, hair trial, makeuptrial, etc.

It was fun...it ***** now! I am busy, I have a crazy job...I dont have time for this anymore.

Also, I HATE that the only thing people want to talk to me about at this point is the wedding. I am an intelligent person, maybe I would like to talk about something other than place settings, veils, dresses, etc.

I just want to be married. If I wouldnt lose so much money, I would cancel the big wedding and elope right now!

Vent over.

don't worry there is still plenty of time to get everything done...just take one thing at a time (and dont forget some of the little things arent super important...if u dont get to programs or menus...its not the end of the world!)

ask your bridal party, family, friends to help out (maybe some of them can take on the little projects for you...if not a company).

itll all come together in the end

split the list of things that you have to do up more- every week fh & I make a weekly sheet & go through what has to be done this week- for example this week its the readings for the ceremony, music for the ceremony & programs. Next week is the sonmg list for the dj- dont pile everything on yourself at once-its too overwhelming.

I started feeling like that too, about month before or so. It gets super stressful at the end, and there are so many last minute things to do (for me more than most probably, due to my procrastination). All of the little things I was so wrapped up in doing I did but on a much smaller scale, and it turned out beautiful and I am sure no one even noticed.

I feel your pain, but hang in there and it will all get done, and you will be relieved when it is over.