I have been feeling like my friends could careless about me. I guess the trip gave me time to think. I guess it stemmed from me being in the hospital for 5 days a few months ago and the only people that were there for me were my family and FH who slept at the hospital across two chairs every night. I dunno it makes me depressed and I feel like my MOH wants nothing to do with me either, she doesn't call me back and getting her to hang with me is always like pulling teeth. I feel like not even having a bridal party. Sorry, I'm crying right now, cause it really hurts me that things are like this. I am just glad that I have FH by my side.
KN2011
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Aww, dont feel sad. Sometimes I feel that way too..
On the other hand.. I have def been that friend who hasnt reached out. Often, we get caught up in our own lives we just dont realize that we havent been there for other people. Maybe if you talk to your friends, and let them know how you're feeling, things will change.
I had to have a friend say something to me once in order for me to realize I really hadnt been there for her.
HarrymetSally
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awww...try not to let it get you down. At the end of the day its family that is important, whether it be your family or the new family you are creating with your FH because in the long run they are the ones that are going to be there. I know it's tough but try not to let your friends get you down, focus instead on the positive people and things in your life.
so sorry your bummed out- I hope you feel better.
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I'm sorry that you are feeling this way. I would definitely reach out to your friends, I'm sure that they probably dont even realize that they are doing it. Your friends care about you more than you realize!!!! Sometimes others have to be pushed more!!!
No matter what....you always have us
xoabxo
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im sorry ... i am in the same boat i never hear from either of my friends in the BP sometimes i wonder if were even friends any more
soontobmrsmike
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It is very hard to go through that. i have been through so many friendships and they have ended over the years and it was hard but some people you have to let go. If they don't care about you why care for them u know? I always wonder bc im such a goodhearted person that i don't understand why people don't reciprocate back when its your turn. I think it def depends on if your friends are single also. Alot of friends who are single don't want to hang around with the engaged friends bc they feel things are different. I would talk to your friends. i went through a little something like this and wound up just that my friends were truelly busy with personal things in there life. Don't worry!!! You have all of our support!!
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i feel that alot. I had a few friends at work one who im close with and we would all go to lunch together. Now all of a sudden I have cooties or something because they all go without me. People stink on ice and as long as you have great family and a FH thats all you need.
rendel
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thanks girls, it just breaks my heart.
monkeemunk
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Sorry girly, we've all been there and it *****.things will work out..thank goodness u have a great fiance and family. Ur blessed in that way. Let things take their course, everything happens for a reason
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I went through the same thing, it totally stinks. I worked it out with a few people but lost a lot in the end. Have you told them how you feel??? They may not realize what they are doing. It will get better though.
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Every friend has a diff relationship w you. In my case my best friend is wealthy but single. She constantly wants to go out to expensive places. I always feel bad saying no. Im sorry you feel that way but hey you have us!
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I am sorry that you are feeling that way. Personally I go through times when I feel like that as well. If it is the case that htey are avoiding you, I am sure that it has nothing to do with you! I hope things get better soon!!!
