I'm sad.....sorry long

I have so much going on right now. Work is nuts, things at home have been unbelievable, I'm planning the wedding and I'm taking a part of the CPA exam on Jan 23rd. Plus I have to go on a business trip for 2 weeks in Jan. I went to go see New Moon tonight with some coworkers. (Thought it was great btw)

I have a horrible time of not showing my emotions on my face when I'm upset. I can't just turn things off and not think about it. Things with my brother and parents have been really bad the last couple of months and I get thrown in the middle. Tonight FH tells me that I can go out with my friends to see a movie and be all happy and cheery but be 'tired and upset' when I'm at his parents' house and he has to keep explaining to his mom why I'm so upset. It has been so hard dealing with everything and I really thought that FH understood what I was going through. Then he says to me that everytime things were crappy at home that I would never go to his house because I didn't want to leave my mom, but that I could tonight to see a movie.

I am really hurt by what he is telling me and I don't know what to do. He turned off his phone and so that means he won't even talk to me. I've been so sad over this that I've been crying and can't even fall asleep.

Any advice that you girls can give? Thanks and sorry that it was so long. I feel a little better writing it all out and telling you.

Sorry you're going through this Are u saying that ur FH shut off his phone and ur thinking that means he never wants to talk to you?

i totally know what you mean. my fh says the same sort of thing sometimes...why can you be so happy with them, but then not when you're around me/my parents? sometimes we just need a girl's night out to calm down and de-stress. i'm so sorry you're going through this

Well... I suppose you can leave him a message or two or even text him just saying that you know that he's upset and that you would like to talk things out without arguements and that you just wish that he could see how it is ur feeling and all the stress that you are going through then, take a deep breath and wait till he's ready to talk I'm sure that when he has a clear mind he will be willing to listen to you.

Give him time he will talk to you.

I have the SAME EXACT PROBLEM. FH is very over sensitive about it... and they don't understand I can't just change how I'm feeling... I wear my heart on my sleeve. FH can come to my house as upset as he wants cause it's just me... but I have to deal with his whole family every time I go over there and sometimes I'm just not prepared for that and he still wants me to come over.

Sorry you have to deal with it. I haven't found a good way except to say I'm not feeling well when I'm super stressed out and just not go over there.

Good luck!

I'm sorry, I'm sure he'll call you soon.

I'm sorry! I know how you feel - I'm taking a part of the CPA on MONDAY and have had to reschedule it 4 times b/c work has been so insane that I can't study!

Honestly, good communication is so important, I think you & FH need to sit down and discuss that when he shuts off his phone, he's not being there for you when you need it the most!



Hope this all gets resolved quickly!!

So sorry you are going thru this. Take one day at a time and I'm sure fh will be there for you.

On another note if you need help, have any questions, or need suggestions regarding ur CPA exam, do not hesitate to ask.

I recently passed all 4 parts and know what you are going thru.

Stay strong.

sometimes a girls' night out takes your mind off of it..being around any other family reminds you of the problems of yours.

I go through the SAME thing...

Just tell him that...maybe you guys can have a night out...

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Posted by jliz719

So sorry you are going thru this. Take one day at a time and I'm sure fh will be there for you.

On another note if you need help, have any questions, or need suggestions regarding ur CPA exam, do not hesitate to ask.

I recently passed all 4 parts and know what you are going thru.

Stay strong.

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congrats.. i have my next part on 14th of January..

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Posted by Rosie0613

Thank you everyone!! You girls are the best!!!

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you are not alone Rosie! i hope everything gets better.